i want to make him undersatnd that i dont love him?

Question

but cant hurt him as he is my friend

Answer 1

Give him that...

You are like my brother line.
"I love you like a brother... I could never imagine marrying you."

All women use that at some point in their life.....

Answer 2

Even better than just "the brother line" is:

You are like the brother Mom never told me about.

It's going to hurt him, but it's better than letting him think it can go somewhere.

The only thing I'll tell you is, sometimes you get a little further along in the relationship, and you realize you'd like him to NOT be your surrogate brother.

Men, once told they are like a brother, usually back really far off. (*shrug*) So, just make sure that you want to be his surrogate sister for the rest of your days.

Answer 3

Just the opposite of the problem a guy with a his friend when she had fall in love with someone else...( link in the source ) ...

You are at this time not just hurting youself and your friend but doing injustice to him too....go and tell him seriously what you think of him. Do not drop hint...I am dead sure he will not understand those hints or at worst will not try to understand those.

Lingering on make life hell for everyone involve. Make it simple and do not think that matter would get fine itself....life never and will never get settle itself.. You have to take action.

Answer 4

hi, iv just been in the same boat with my friend, an the only thing you can do is tell him that you love him but only as a friend, an you look at him more as a brother then a lover.let him down gentily, it will hurt at frist but then he will see that best friends are better, as they stay with you forever an lovers come an go!!
good luck hun

Answer 5

you can send another girl for him in which you see them can be love each others.. and in this way u were make a favor for him and in the same time u make him know that u r not for love and u r good friend..good luck and don`t hurt him plz

Answer 6

hey Girl, please told him the true that you don't love him.
Remember you are hurting him more if you don't tell what you really fell for him. And you are making more harder the situation.

You had already lost him as friend when you start to hide what truly fell for him, And know that hi still will be your friend (if hi really love you) and hi will appreciate if you told him the true.

Answer 7

Get it out of the way. He will appreciate your maturity and honesty.
Now how do you phase it? be honest and say "I like you as friend , I respect you as a person but I feel no chemistry". As painful as it is it beats the alternative. And as far as being your friend you might loose that but that's OK. things happen.

Answer 8

I think no matter what you tell him if he really loves you it will hurt him anyway but you need to tell him soon because its not fare on him let him know you still want to be friends.

Answer 9

ask him tat if u love me or r u ma best friend?ok then if he says that he is in love then-try to make him understand that u don love him and ur only his friend and finally u should say like this-i love u but as ma best friend only and catch his hand and walk by talkin all the things in ur mind and sometimes he will change his mind to become ur friend.

Answer 10

oops...thts a messy situation i know...but u just have to go thru with it....tell him u love him like a friend...n tht u totally respect his feelings...but u dont feel the same way bout him. try n be as polite as u can get..tell him his friendship matters a lot to u..n that u'd like him to be happy .. but....son on n so forth.
good luck

Answer 11

sometimes it hurts! if you really, really love him then you need to be able to walk away and let him deal with the pain! it will make him stronger and in the end he will appreciate getting out of a loveless relationship.