A year and 1/2 ago, I weighed 145 lbs. I had the perfect shape. Now that I have gained weight (195lbs) I can't seem to get a date. My stomach is kinda puggy, and my legs have gotten larger. Will I ever be able to get another date?
2007-03-09 21:35:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, when you lose at least 40 lbs. 120-140 lbs is your best bet . . . maybe slightly outside that range would be OK but it's a good ballpark range without knowing your height. Actually, that's how I usually judge girls' attractiveness . . . attitude, weight, and height (not taller than me). There's other stuff too, but that's the abridged outline. At least you caught the problem early. It should be easy enough to recover from weighing 195 lbs . . . be glad you realized this before you got to 295 . . . . Just eat less overall, eat more often, eat healthier, and do some sort of exercise and you should be able to lose the weight eventually. 1-2 lbs per week is the recommended reduction rate, so it might take a while for you to shed that weight. Be patient. Good luck!
2007-03-09 21:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you can still get a date, a lot of times it's about you connect with people more then your looks. That said looks are an important part of attraction and 195 is quite a lot larger then 145. The people who you attract may be larger too.
2007-03-09 21:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by K.i.t.t.y. L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey go on a little diet an excise more, as i felt the same . but once i went on it an lost some wight i started to feel good about myself an then i started to get more attention ,
hope it works out for you
2007-03-09 21:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by miss shy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes,because most people on this site seem to think that "looks" do not matter at all! I'm sure that your charming personality will secure you a date! good luck!
2007-03-09 21:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by CHARLIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exercise more... that's the universial truth
2007-03-09 21:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah but you'll have to lower your standares a lot. only losers like fat broads; watch what you eat.
2007-03-09 21:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by optcynbassist 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes! looks arent everything sweetheart!! a true man will love you for u and not for how ur body looks
2007-03-09 21:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by sexy sexy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO.
2007-03-09 21:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by impossiblemama 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋