i have been seeiing this guy for the last 2 years off and on i see him 3-5 times a week i really like him hes 24 and im 20 i wanna know if hereally likes me or is it just the sex but sometimes he dont call for a few days?? i dont should i ask him if he likes or just leave it were its at im really in to him alot i find myself thinking of him a lot hes so quite but we have fun together hes different from every other guy out there and hes so sweet some one help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-09 21:34:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All of us guys love the sex, thats a "no-brainer". He probably likes you for more than that as well but you just need to work up the courage to ask. Dont be scared, just do it
2007-03-09 21:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by Jimmy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex and Guys liking you are not the same thing and should never be confused. If you are having fun together he must like you, but at 20 and 24 have fun! When you turn 24 and he is 28 then you should begin questioning where it's going.
2007-03-10 05:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you seeing other people? Is he? what are the grounds for this relationship? Is it a friends with benefits situation? Whatever the problem, honesty is always the best option. Sit him down and explain to him that you want more from this. If he doesn't then you have to accept that, but believe me it will be alot less pain in the long run. And if he does then you are in a relationship with somebody that you like, congrats..... But above all, i hope that you are being careful with the sexual side if you know what i mean. Good luck
2007-03-10 05:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by benny blanco from the bronx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're putting yourself in a position of being hurt extremely bad from this situation.
Coming from a guy, I can tell you that men that seem too good to be true generally are.
There are exceptions to every rule, of course, but there just isn't enough information given to figure that part out.
If I were you, I'd find out sooner rather than later. Ask him if he'd feel comfortable getting closer. You may lose him if you ask him this but once again, its better to find out early rather than get hurt later.
Trust me, I've been through this myself a few times and in the end, if things don't work out how you want them to, you feel like you were used and thrown away.
Take my advice. Find out now!
2007-03-10 05:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by EtherealRemnant 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he cant be a man and support the other end of the relationship by keeping in touch then i think he is just using u.. and trying to make u feel good by pleasuring u.. to keep his sex going and to fool u by " making love ".. like my boyfriend said.. stop the sex.. and say sex isnt everything in a relationship and see how his horny mind reacts!!
2007-03-10 05:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by sexy sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not for Sex may be you both are in Love but unable to express each other so don't worry be brave.
2007-03-10 05:45:47 · answer #6 · answered by heybapi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can suck a watermelon through a waterhose, then it's the sex. if he really likes you the way you like him, he would of already done something about it a looong time ago. face the facts, you're just a piece of a$$.
2007-03-10 05:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by optcynbassist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with him a few times without the sex and then see if he still wants to hang out anymore. if not, it was about the sex, if so, he really likes you.
2007-03-10 05:38:58 · answer #8 · answered by Chris C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are his sex buddy. You never put any definition into what the two of you are to each other. To him, you are the go-to girl when he needs some lovin' and he thinks that its cool that your so cool to not want more from him.
2007-03-10 06:44:11 · answer #9 · answered by T!ff 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"When he's away where's the glory?..."
she said with a question on her brow
Guess she never did hear the story
about the free milk and a cow
2007-03-10 05:40:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋