there is this girl that i like from my class. recently, i found out that she likes me too. we are quite close before and it has been one year, so i asked her to be my girlfriend. the expression that she gave to me was that she was very confused and my other gal friens told me that she told them that she vowed to stay single but this vow did not have a time limit. she said she would give the answer to me by today and i haven received anything yet.she likes me and wants to stay single. we of a suitable age to date already.. y does she keep avoiding me now? i sent her home and her leg was injured so i asked her to sit in the train. but she scolded me and asked me to go away... what does that mean? will i have any chances of getting her to accept me? help pls.. i'm GOING CRAZY.. thx.
2007-03-09 21:34:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she's not sure, or if she says no, then remain friends, but don't pressure her and don't be so easily available to her. You pulling away a little just might make you more attractive to her. Don't talk to her friends about her anymore (they'll tell her you're still interested), be busier, hang out with some other girls, but hang out with her too (just not as much because you need time to get over her).
2007-03-09 21:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by Purple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need space. She might be confused for now, and fighting her feeling towards you. Give her time to think. And then talk to her after sometime when you know that she is not pressured to her feelings. And be ready to accept her decision and respect. And try to maintain the friendship rather than lose her.
2007-03-09 21:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by taurust_girl27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she is in love with you but fearing her family so try to understand and make a good friendship with her and try to visit her home and pay proper respect to her elders . Remember one thing first impression is last long so try to get close with her family. Best of Luck.
2007-03-09 21:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by heybapi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nicely ive performed it in the previous because of the fact i didnt opt to be with the guy and it became the least complicated way of asserting it. She could love u as a buddy yet not experience suitable some dating x
2016-10-01 21:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear confused; just the fact that she hasn't answer you tells me she doesn't want to get serious with you, so don't go crazy, just be her friend, because friends are hard to find.
2007-03-09 21:43:30 · answer #5 · answered by jane g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax, don't be so up-tight and don't pressure her. She is aware of how you handle yourself in this matter.
2007-03-09 21:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by liberty11235 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't force her to be ur gf... just keep a close relaation wif her and soon she'll ask u to be her bf!!! trust me it works!
2007-03-09 21:37:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her time, if she's worth it, you can wait.
2007-03-09 21:37:37 · answer #8 · answered by inesp01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋