How can men make love to someone they don't really love?

Question

I mean,don't they feel weird to touch a woman they don't love?
And how can they have sex with a woman without love?
For me I won't let a man get close to me if I don't love him,not to mention sex.So I can't understand this.If a man can have sex with a woman he doesn't really love,so does it mean that he's still loyal to his wife after he had sex with another woman,and he still love his wife?

Answer 1

For most men, making love has very little to do with love. For them it’s a question of fulfilling the overflowing urge and desire, i.e. reducing the pressure and physical frustrations.

Many will try to curb the urge by various methods, including musterbation, or keeping oneself busy with something else. But when they fail and have no option, they can turn into being animals! Thats why, self release is, as the last harmless resort, should not be condemmed.

Doing it with the loved ones, therefore, is both a bonus and the most fullfilling pleasure and enjoyment for man.

All the best!/

Answer 2

Precious, why he's so mad at the girl he loves, he could make love to pogo stick. Stolen sex is not lovemaking but it will do. Sometimes one has to experience somebody else's body to remember what it's like. After a few years, and kids, the thrill is forgotten and way gone. Married and fight'en every night wears down both sides, and eventually one will crack. Forgiveness is allowed if they don't move out. Some people have overheard a wife say to a husband, that " our mistress is just beautiful. How old is she?" One must remain able to give a damn at all to keep love alive. Staying sensitive, and realistic is a trick. Being passionate requires excitement. Being loyal for years requires commitment. But being sexy for years, requires a trainer. best

Answer 3

You don't need love to have sex. Here we go. Men are born with the need to procriate. It's a drive that is in our genes. We have sex to release that drive. Grant it, you can have sex without love or course. but, to have sex and love that person, you are then"making love" which is so much more meaningful. Getting laid will always be temporary because after it's over you are left with the feeling of how do I get rid of them without feeling like a ***. It's a selfish act but, usually both are playing it.

Answer 4

Men are capable of:

Abstaining from sex

Sleeping with the one they love

Loving someone they want to sleep with, but not being able to due to the woman making them wait

Sleeping with someone they could care less about

Wanting to sleep with someone they could care less about, but circumstances or morals preventing them

Being torn and sleeping with (at separate times) or wanting to sleep with (at separate times) two women, one or both of which they love, one or both of which they just want for sex

Sleeping with two women at the same time in a menage a trois/sleeping with their woman and another man, usually with the husband being a mere voyeur

Anything inbetween

This is the real male. Not all of us men act on these dispositions, but we all have them; even gay people do if you substitute "same sex" for men or women

A man that has slept with another woman while married may well love his wife and not care for the other, but he definitely is NOT loyal, unless it is an open marriage and the wife also does such activity, in which case loyalty cannot be measured in terms of sex, only in terms of emotional bonding.

Answer 5

Sex feels good even if you don't love the person. In the absence of love, I'll take sex. But if you really love someone you wouldn't cheat on them because you wouldn't want to hurt that person. Anyone who says different if lying or a cheat trying to justify their infidelity. But don't confuse lovemaking with F*cking, two different activities.

Answer 6

It's not making love, it's having sex - 2 entirely different things.

Answer 7

Have you ever eaten until full - then someone offers you some dessert/chocolate? Yes, you're full but the offer is delicious and sinful. You indulge yourself. I believe this scenario could be the equivalent to men loving women they don't really love.

Answer 8

As strange as it sounds, yes. Men see sex and love as two completely separate, unconnected things. Sex is something they do because it feels good and love is someone they care about. Unlike most women men are able to separate their emotional responses to sex and love and so can do one without thinking about the other.

Answer 9

Sex does not equal love for all people. For many people sex is just satisfying a need.

Answer 10

Sex is beauty. Every woman has its own beauty. A man has always been a beauty hunter. And always will, I'm apt to tnink.