I met this girl online.... I live in Nashville and she lives in Virginia. I don't want to have a "relationship" with her right now, because that would be stupid. She is miles away, and I'm on probation so it might be a while [probably nine months] before I see her..... but we both really like eachother. I just want to know some things I can do or say to stay on her mind over all this time. What should I do or say to her????
2007-03-09 20:51:03 · 7 answers · asked by Likwid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to basically 'keep the lines open.' Talk about things that are common interests between you and her, maybe talk about a tv show you both like etc etc. The best thing you can do is show that you care about her, loving or friendly, but don't over do it. (Example: "What did you do today and last night? I'm worried since I haven't talked to you in 2 hours.")
Put it simple, don't go overboard. It's fine if you can't meet her in person for a while. If someone is really interested in you, they'll keep you on their mind. Don't worry about things like that.
2007-03-09 20:57:18 · answer #1 · answered by guitaristbmh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not date? Probation doesn't stop her from coming to Nashville to visit you and hell it takes a good nine months anyway to get to really know someone. In the mean time keep up on the phone and online. Just getting to know eachother better and better and better.
2007-03-10 04:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by Jazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you can travel on probation........ just make sure your probation officer knows. I moved to NC while on probation in TN.
Write her poetry. Me and my man met on the Internet and he wrote me this hot short story! I couldn't wait till we met and could re-enact the story!!
Send her small offline messages (i assume you have yahoo messenger). Hope you had a good day or good night. Something simple and sweet!
Good Luck!
2007-03-10 04:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by LRS1085 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you care for her . And you cant wait to see her . Also write her ( actual letters not e-mails ) About how you feel and stuff .
2007-03-10 05:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by wendieann1064 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do and say to her whatever is the real you . Authentic people always impress others .
2007-03-10 04:55:31 · answer #5 · answered by maria_t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probation? How about starting with, "I swear I'll never do this again......."
2007-03-10 04:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by dude0795 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both get cams and have websex
2007-03-10 04:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by defragmentedbrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋