How do you show a girl that you're serious about a relationship and not just full of it?
2007-03-09 20:48:58 · 8 answers · asked by Jake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take her out places, make her feel really special, TELL HER that you're serious.
Stuff like that.
2007-03-09 20:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you tell her how you feel first of all... then you show her that you really want a serious relationship and its not just full of it....when you are around her and are a gentlemen .. act the same way towards her when you are hanging with the guys....girls LOVE it when you do that!!!=]and tell them they are beautiful instead of hott...we appreatiate it..thank you very much...call them every day just to say"i love you" ...DONT be too clingy .....unless the girl likes it .. cuz if not it can be really anoying!!!!! take my word on it!!! tell her your in this realtionship till the end if that dosnt work then i dont know....=]
2007-03-10 04:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl and if I were your partner I would consider your sincerity if you can respect me. You can do this by genuinely showing how you care for her through ACTIONS. Not words. You should mention 'I love you' as seldom as possible so that she won't get tired of it and so that it would give her a thrill to hear these words. About the actions, little gestures in public only the two of you know is very sweet. Like holding her hand in the middle of the crowd. You should basically act according to your emotions and be sensitive to what she needs. For example carrying her stuff for her. Opening the door for her. These are little gestures of chivalry that all women have always wanted. Remember that all of us women, have dreamed to be a princess and upto now is looking a for our prince charming. So you should be like one.
Being sensitive to a girls feelings is quite a hard task for men, as I have noticed. Majority of you are very objective, and tend to disregard the emotions you fail to even try to get thru. You should make an effort to feel how she feels, understand what she does and see whatever it is. You love her, like what I understood from your statements, so I bet this phenomena of feeling would be instinctive. And once you become sensitive then you'll get to know her more and show her more of your love.
Moreover, there should be a sense of uniqueness in you. Ok, I know everybody's unique from one another, but you should take note, to be uniquely for her. We women, ador men who know how to respect not only their girlfriends but basically everyone and everything around them. Everything like being concerned for the cleanliness of the surroundings, cause this shows that you want to build a world that is perfect for you and her. While you do this you should, treat her specially and like what I said, uniquely. Verbally this translates to 'I appreciate the surroundings and everything I have. But most of all I love you'
And of course you as her boyfriend must support her in everything she does. However, you should also know when to remind her of what is right. Believe me she'll appreciate your effort of being concerned to what is best for her rather than complying to everything that she wants.
2007-03-10 05:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by HSBChanel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out places, lunch, walk on the beach. Find out stuff she is in2 and then do sumthing that involves it. Make sure you flirt alot, but make sure you are only flirtacious with her. Make sure she can tell the difference between the feelings u have with her and just a girl dats your friend. Be blunt with her and tell her, a girl likes uprfront honesty! well to sum extent!
2007-03-10 05:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Writing a poem or a song...may sound silly but it worked for me...girls like that stuff and shows that you took the time out of your day to write something special for them from your heart.
2007-03-10 04:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by Handsome Black guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that by really paying attention to her. Be really respectfull. Try to do activities including her family or take her more often to you family reunions. Just listen to whatever she says.
2007-03-10 05:29:39 · answer #6 · answered by gasparin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep doing what u know how to do best u love her for ur part she wil realise that herself u ned not show her
2007-03-10 04:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by ayothony007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to marry u then u mean business
2007-03-10 06:23:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋