There is this guy, who is my friend, and I feel like I want us to be more than friends. We have the best conversation, and he's basically everything I want in a boyfriend. We've never really been out on a date we just pretty much just chill and talk with each other at each other's apartment. Nothing more tho'....besides the one time we made out....but I blame it on the alcohol! But when we talk we always manage to talk about relationships, why neither one of us has found the one, the future, where we see ourselves in the future, and other intellectual things. Neither one of us sends any signals to the other, such as flirting. We don't talk on the regular, but when we do, it lasts for hours! And after every talk, he's on my mind continuously! All I can think about is how badly I want to be his #1! Am I wrong for this? Are my desires to be with him too far-fetched!???
2007-03-09 20:20:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he has the hots for you as much a you have for him .
when people are drunk the inhibitions are loosened , if he was contributing and responding in this , then chances are in the back of his mind he wanted to do it anyway , you usually find that if feelings dont go away , they are most likely pretty solid , either way , if you dont do something , and express this to the other person , it will eventually fade , and the oppurtunity will dissapear to..
look for the signs , people wont tell you they are lonely , they will beat around the bush. "But when we talk we always manage to talk about relationships" and "We don't talk on the regular, but when we do, it lasts for hours!" , i dont know about anyone else , these are fair signs that it is mutaual.
talk to him , i would almost bet he feels the same.
2007-03-09 20:29:33 · answer #1 · answered by DSV 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he keeps talking about not finding the number one thats usually a mans underhanded way of saying "I like you, show me some sort of signal you like me too.". ASK HIM OUT.
2007-03-09 20:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by Jazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it always turn to ****. I am dating this wonderful women, and at the same time I am in love(deep passionate love with another women)
2007-03-09 20:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by Taboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really want to risk losing your friendship with him?ask him just hypothetically how will he feel about having a serious relationship with you?
2007-03-09 20:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no man your cool with that . love is love you can' stop it. so my dear GO FOR IT
2007-03-09 20:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up to him and ask him if he wants to have sex with you !!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-09 20:24:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, if he wants you he will make a move on you and then you
can take it from there, it is best to tell him, and not just worship him
from afar.............................................................................................................
2007-03-09 20:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by gorglin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋