I had a chance to go out with this extremly beautiful girl but i didn't realise at the time that she liked me. When I found out she did she said before i had a chance but she got over me and moved on to another guy. How can I make her like me the way she did before? Btw she has a bf now - please help I think i like her?
2007-03-09 20:15:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well speaking as a girl that has liked male friends before but moved on because they just weren't interested i don't think you ever actually get over them like i mean she may only have moved on to someone that was second best because she couldn't have her first choice-you. In saying that you will have to assess the situation with her boyf, like he may only have been second best in the first place but he wanted her when you didn't and she may only think that you want her now because you are jealous or something. My advice would be to go talk to her, tell her how you feel and ask her how she feels about you now. If she turns you down then stay friends with her and maybe when her and her boyf break up you can be her shoulder to cry on...if it is meant to be it will be like! Best of luck!x
2007-03-10 00:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by zzzzzzzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that you regreat what you did and hint your desires, but continue your life. Do what you think made her like you. Hope for another chance. If you push it too far now, you might cause damage.
She really didn't get over you if you haven't done anything stupid in the meanwhile. She just went on, and now she has someone who likes her.
Try to sense life as something yesterday, today and tomorrow all in one.
Gifts of life not flavoured are the most desired... But new gifts are on the way.
Learn from your mistake and try to be more perceptive.
2007-03-09 20:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the trick here is to try and find out what it was about you that fascinated her and capitilize on that by creating opportunities to see her and allow her a chance to see that in you again.Girls tend to back away if they realise that by letting a guy know that they are interested it strokes their ego, I would say don't give up especially if there is a chance that they are seeing another guy just to replace you in their heart...
2007-03-09 22:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, If she has a bf then i think you should forget her.Bcoz she is happy with her bf.And you said "I think i like her", it means that u r pretty not sure about it.So let her live her own life.I am sure you will forget her in days.I know that my words did hurt you and i am sorry 4 that friend, but this is the fact!
But if she doesnt have a bf then you can directly go to her and propose.But b4 that confirm that she doesnt have one.
If you are her first love then she will never forget you and definately will say yes.
I wish you luck!
2007-03-09 20:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by Z....... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like this girl a lot then you should not let this chance pass by coz u'll regret it for the rest of your life...
she's not married yet you still have the chance...
you'll never know until you tried...and dont let this haunt you forever...
be friends with her since she has a bf now... and stay close to her...be there for her as her friend... and just maybe when you get too close again the feelings will go back...
2007-03-09 20:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by kimberly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok- alls fair in love and war- heard that one? Forget about her boyfriend- if she leaves him for you it is her dilemma not yours and you would be doing him a favour by showing him she is not that into him.
Don't try and recapture previous feelings- create new ones. She is obviously predisposed to like you, so you have a head start.
But how to approach it, this is a tough one. It depends on how easy it is for you to communicate with her.
You still have to play cool with her, but you need somehow to flirt with her and get back on her 'radar'. You need to seem interested but elusive-- make her guess to herself-- what is this guy about?
Don't do anything obvious unless you want to put it all on the line. I mean you could go up to her face and say-- I still like you, break up with your bf and be with me. It would be extremely risky and I am told women almost never accept ultimatums.
I think be lighthearted, but somehow engage her and make a way to spend time with her. For example-- ring her and say "I just wanted you to know I was thinking about you. bye" and hang up--- she will spend the next week wondering what you meant. If she is dediicated to the other guy this will not effect her much. But if she is curious about you- the next time you speak to her she will be itching to find out why you are thinking about her.
I would subtly move in on her. She may well still carry a torch for you, but you have to maneouvre around the bf and around cracking on too directly.
Good luck-- don't think you are out of this game by any means
2007-03-09 20:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by Oz Billy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is be yourself the same as you did before she found a boyfriend.
Stay friends with her ,listen to her ask her questions show a friendly intrest only and if she ends with her boyfriend you are still there and never bad mouth her new boyfriend to her either.
So just be yourself you never know with patience one day she may be your however please try and move on to pastures new as one sure way to get someone intrested is to move on and let her see you have.
2007-03-09 22:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by momof3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make somebody like you!
your chance has obviously gone as shes moved on and got a boyfriend now! maybe thats the reason you like her? like you dont want her but nobody else can!
maybe you should move on and find somebody else! :-)
2007-03-09 21:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by Jemmax 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, i will just call her and express my feelings to her and beg her for another chance because i have now realise my mistake.Promise her that it will never and ever happen again.
2007-03-09 21:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by ISAAC A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has a boyfriend, let her be. If you want her to like you, be yourself. Be her friend. Just .. be you. If it's meant to be, it will. I wouldn't suggest trying to snatch her from her boyfriend thou. If she loves the guy it may piss her off and ruin even friendship with her in the future. She isn't a trophy and shouldn't be treated as one. She isn't a prize to win and making her feel like one, may get you kicked to the curb entirely. I vote for sitting back, watching, and being yourself. Be a good friend. All in all... que sera sera. (Whatever will be, will be.)
Me
2007-03-09 20:25:15 · answer #10 · answered by Jazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋