My ex and I dated for almost 3 yrs. We just recently broke up. Due to the fact that it's been a LONG time since I've gone on a date with any guy, I am ready to go out and have fun. In order for us to be friends, I decided to take a stand and said "no contact for 30 days" so I could clear my mind and see how things go from there. I know I still love him, but its not romantic love. So why am I still fighting the urge to call him...even though Im the one that came up with the "no contact for 30 days" deal?
2007-03-09 20:11:43 · 3 answers · asked by massagebymichelle1986 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are like all of us Michelle. You want what you can't have. As soon as you can have it, you'll take it for granted...
2007-03-09 20:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by PatrickS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I was on a relationship for 3 years too. After we broke-up I was just not used to be w/out her. I had the feeling of calling her every day at least to say hi. But after a couple of months a realized I had to let her go. I joint a sports club to get her ourt of my mind, I knew it wasn't love. Short after it just seem to hapend that I was not thinking of her at all. I seen her since then twice and I just see her as another person now. I'm not in a new relationship but i started dating again. Just move on and try to get your mind in something alse.
Good luck to you!!!
JP
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2007-03-10 05:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by gasparin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being with someone for 14 years! my boyfriend broke it off 2 months ago. He was in your life for so long that talking to him is habit. You probably get along so well talking to him is comfortable and easy. I know it is hard, but stick to your deal and see if you can make it without him. You will feel sad, but don't use him as a crutch . Try to move forward. Good luck.
2007-03-10 04:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by Teslajuliet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋