So there's this girl that I really like, we're friends since 8th grade. But the problem is that i started to like her as more than just a friend. I told her that and she said that she only likes me as her friend :( I don't know what to do...... Whatever I do, i think about her, i dream about her... And is impossible to forget her as long as she is my friend and we talk at the phone everyday. I really love her, so please help me.... Thanks
2007-03-09 20:05:24 · 17 answers · asked by pofjefiewjrawir 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to get some closure. If she's not into you, then it's never going to happen. If it hurts you being around her, then explain it to her and get some distance. It's not worth your mental well-being. Trust me you can drag that kind of heartbreak out for years.
The real cure to all your woes is to find another girl and move on. Once you've got someone else, you could probably be friends with her again. It's a lot easier when she's not the best and only thing in your life anymore.
Sorry to be harsh, but you asked.
2007-03-09 20:13:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay friends for now, that's better than nothing. You never know it could turn into something more later down the road. Plus if it's meant to be then it will.
I read an article today about a couple who had known each other since age 15 and had been like brother and sister until everything just fell into place. Now their happily married.
Keep the friendship up and if nothing turns out you'll at least have on heck of a friend!
2007-03-10 04:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by LRS1085 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dude, you fell into the friend trap. Your talking everyday keeps you in the friend mode. How to fix? You tell her "since we are friend and you know me set me up with one of your friends" Two things can happen, she figures out she likes you or you start going with her friend.
Don't be trip-pin on some school girl. If she doesn't like you.
You need to charge her to the game and move on. If you are a good guy you will find someone better. Trust me.
2007-03-10 04:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by SuperKdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you as a friend and she told you the truth about her feelings . She didn't use you -taking advantage of the fact that you like her - . That means that she is a real friend . You will meet many girls that you Will like but not so many real friends . Don't do anything . Respect her decision and enjoy your friendly relationship.
2007-03-10 04:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by maria_t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what grade you are in now but if 8th grade was along time ago she may see you as a brother if nothing has happend since then
2007-03-10 04:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by IC4NDY_ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For starters, listen to her & leave her alone. She already knows you like her & is playing the female game. You know, the one where she gets to be involved with another but keeps you hanging on for the crumbs of affection she throws your way. Quit talking to her everyday & get interested in new people.
2007-03-10 04:16:11 · answer #6 · answered by Little sis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay a way from her at this time in your life. I know that's a harsh order. You need to move on and find other things to think about. You need to stay strong and take the high road when you deal with her. You are freaking her out. Start from square one and rebuild your relationship.
2007-03-10 04:13:31 · answer #7 · answered by Mark in Boulder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advise you to pull away from the relationship a bit until you can handle your feelings for her in moderation, or get over her and accept the friendship only status. That's about the only thing you can do. Just have less contact with her.
Jazz
2007-03-10 04:11:05 · answer #8 · answered by Jazz 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what im going to say is going tto be risky, but why dont you take some space for your own for a week and she how she reacts, maybe she needs to see she misses you in order to confront her feelings.
2007-03-10 04:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by alex 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might as well curl up in a ball and cry. Because it isn't going to happen.
2007-03-10 04:09:10 · answer #10 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋