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I was getting married to this girl from Ohio and things didn't work out, but now I found out she is pregnant and saying it is this other guys. We did not end on a good note and I think she is telling this guy it is his, just to keep me out of her life. The reason I wonder if it is mine, is because we had a boo boo, she missed her period, and then she had this talk with me right before we went our own ways. She asked me what if I were to get pregnant and things didn't work out? I told her that unlike my father I would like to be a part of my childs life and she told me that she is afraid that I would want custody and she would never allow that. I din't think twice about it until someone told me she was pregnant and that is when I asked her. First she wouldn't say, but now it is no. I asked for some kind of medical proof that this guy she was dating for not even a month is the father ( we were little over two years). She told me that she wouldn't give me any medical record proof.Plz help

2007-03-09 18:47:41 · 2 answers · asked by CowboyMac 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

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i wish there were more men out there like you at least you are trying to take responsibility for a child who may be yours but you dont want to take the risk of the child being yours and you not doing anything. I do commend you on that.

If the mother is not willing to have this done it may need to be court ordered. To find out more about having this test required by the court please consult with a local attorney who specializes in custody, paternity, and child support cases. I hope that this information will be helpful in your attempt to resolve this situation.

good luck

2007-03-10 07:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by Kynnie 6 · 0 0

first of all i want to applaud you for stepping forward and taking responsibility. There are men that do tha opposite. Now you can get a court order just go to your local family courthouse and let the clerks know and they can help you with the paper work. You would have to get a DNA test done once paternity has been established then the judge will establish a visitation and support schedule. Good luck take her to court you have the right to know if this is your child

2007-03-13 19:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by beenie 21 3 · 0 0

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