were both 17. this girl has pillow fights with me, puts her photo into my phone as wallpaper, calls up my friends, even parents for jokes, even though i dont find it amusing, always laughs at my jokes, she gets very close to me, and wont move away.....and likes to touch me alot, and play with things i have. i get mixed signals though, as sometimes during the day she wont talk to me at all, cause she studies, but when were together she cant stop talking, and offering me food, and drinks, and going out places.One thing she does alot is curls up and goes to sleep for like a minute,and then wakes up, and does it again......whats all this mean???she also tells me about times when shes stressed at school and so forth....one thing thats really wierd though, she likes to know what her name is on my phone when it rings???.........need help, im from canada btw guys. I like this girl heaps, and need her to know that, cause im really scared of losing her to someone else.
2007-03-09 18:22:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she just told me the other day, that this guy is after her, and that she doesnt know what to do, and she was wondering what i thought???......im hurting inside, but dont know if i should go for it or not??? she said it was an ex of hers who wants to try again. Also, i asked her for lunch once, and she never replied, then the same day she spoke to me later on, and acted as if nothing had happened, playing dumb of course, and didnt even mention me asking her for lunch via txt. Well yesterday, this girl advised me that shes going to the movies tonght with one of her ex's(dnno if on a date or not though), is she still into me or has already moved on?i saw her before, and she kept punching me before i left, and making contact.....whats all this mean?, im scared of losing her thats for sure, and i dont think ill like her if she goes out with someone anyway.....so please advise what i should do...
2007-03-09 18:22:28 · update #1
...the ball is in your court dude
2007-03-09 18:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by mørbidsшεεŧnεss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this chica your describing doesn't know what she wants. You need to get tough and tell her the truth: that you love your guys friendship and that if she wants it to be something else she needs to tell you or your going to assume that all she wants is a friendship and is just incredible inept in social situations between people.
Give her some slack though if she has grown up around all boys. Its really hard to turn off the whole beating up is affection and ignorance/pestering if the outpouring of love thing that stickly upholds for familial love.
2007-03-09 18:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by espressoaddict22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww puppy love! She definately likes you. There probally is no other guy...she is telling you this to see if you get jealous and to try and make u speed it up! Move quickly but nicely! Just let her know you think she rocks! Write her a sweet little letter if telling her face 2 face is scary! Good Luck Love Bird!
2007-03-09 18:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes you and you need to make the move on her now before she does go with someone else, all the physical contact that she has with you is a definite sign that she's into you.
2007-03-09 18:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps there is a mental problem that you are unaware of. Ask someone that knows her better. I'm not trying to be unkind by saying this because it could be the case.
2007-03-09 18:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What what, I just answer this question 5 minutes ago. My answer is still the same. Have a nice evening.
A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-03-09 18:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her up right this minute and dont let her change the subject when you ask her out to dinner. if she says yes then make it REALLY romantic and bring her flowers and all the works... if you act fast then maybe she wont go on another date with her x.
2007-03-09 18:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is playing games, if you want her to stop it tell her you will not put up with it . she acts as if you will always be there play hard to get when she calls or texts u don't answer, she calls your home your not there and even go out with other girls let her see this, act as if you don't care it will drive her crazy and she'll come running .
2007-03-09 18:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by hannah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you like her and ask her if she would like to go out on a definite date. Ask her face to face, do not text message her. Look her right in the eyes, when you ask her. show her you have some backbone.
2007-03-09 18:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by READER 1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are normal things that we do when we like some boy but maybe you were really slow or she is trying to make you feel jealous. If you like her, tell her, and see what happens. Life is for enjoy, ENJOY IT !
2007-03-09 18:26:29 · answer #10 · answered by YARA * 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this relationship needs communication. You don't need to be talking to us, you need to be talking to her about your relationship and where it's going.
If she says she only wants to be friends, you should stop being friends. She's leading you on in that case. You don't need that, it's emotionally distressful, believe me.
2007-03-09 18:27:00 · answer #11 · answered by kenniemcooper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋