Okay, well theres this girl at my school (im 14 btw) who im really intrested in, and she keeps sending me very mixed signals...I first talked to her a couple of weeks ago and since then we've been pretty good friends. She'll do a lot of things to make it seem like she likes me, like touching and hugging me alot, and ditching her friends for me, but then she'll turn around and do things that make it seem like she wants nothing to do with me....it may be just because im extremely self-counscious and im interpreting these things wrong...but what do you guys think?
2007-03-09 18:18:04 · 12 answers · asked by TheToxicity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay so the answer is simple. This Girl obviously has some type of feelings for you. But they are most likely mixed feelings. Also, don't be self conscious about yourself. Give yourself a little more credit. And it can also be by the way you carry yourself. Just, continue to be a "friend with benefits" with her. And soon enough.. She'll fall for you.
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Let me know how it goes.
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2007-03-09 18:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by Sumo Samantha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a problem, the same one men have had for eons. You are trying to figure out the mystique of women. Short of confronting her, why not play the same "game" she's playing. Usually, its fun. Its called dating.
Tell you what, next time she's good to you, make a comment like, "well, when do we pick out the furniture?" or when she doesn't want anything to do with you, say, "I'm feeling like a slab of beef when you treat me like that." You need to convey how you feel without assuming something isn't happening between the two of you. Giving her a "I Sorry" card and say, "Don't know what I did, but if you tell me, I promise it'll never happen again, I hope."
What you are trying to do is to get her talking to you about the two of you. Novel idea, communicating and all that.
2007-03-09 18:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes trying to keep you at the tips of her fingers!!! So that you'll get whooped & then she'll write ya a Dear John letter- making it seem like she's interested just enough for you to want more, then avoid you occasionally just to confuse you- i wouldnt waste my time. i do it to a few guys every now & then, when im not really interested but im not really talkin to anyone else so i use them as "back-up" in case i wana go out on a dbl date or whatever. but i have no intentions of being serious with them.
2007-03-09 18:29:14 · answer #3 · answered by CuRiOuS1989.! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may,but it is not always easy to tell. She may not know herself. The mixed signals is common to all ages. It drives some nuts, it puts them in what shrinks call - The double bind- so you are not alone, keep watching and listening for something positive.
2007-03-09 18:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She linkes you, but it's very hard for her to tell you. She may just now be asking herself that same thing, which would explain the mixed signals. Good-luck!^_^
2007-03-09 18:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by ♥•♥Melody♥•♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 21:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by leisinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sry but it sounds to me lik she is kinda a tease
2007-03-09 18:23:24 · answer #7 · answered by dannielle s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her about that!Be confident..Think she likes you!
2007-03-09 18:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by MARY JANE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she likes you, just ask her out and see
2007-03-09 18:25:34 · answer #9 · answered by cocopuffs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants u to care about her
2007-03-09 18:22:05 · answer #10 · answered by ser7129 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋