She is just 14 and i'm soconfused!Shall I tell to my parents?
2007-03-09 18:02:20 · 23 answers · asked by COROLLA 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just make clear your query by asking nor by just telling to your parents directly.That will hurt her.Just win her confidence and ask her about that!
2007-03-09 18:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by MARY JANE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Sisters Wardrobe
2016-12-12 19:09:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a serious discovery you're made there. Are your parents the type to beat the **** out of her? Then maybe you should assess whether you should tell them or not. Either way, at some point you must let them know that something is happening with your sister. First talk to your sister. Is this in character with her behavior? Or is it a total shock? The answers to those questions will decide whether you should get your parents involved immediately or wait until talking to her first.
2007-03-09 19:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by shoshana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is really sad.u need to tell ur parents before telling to your parents u need to do some tests. u ask her casually what does the condom is used for , but for this u can;t ask her directly, so wat u need to do is should ask her when there is an add in the tv. or if u have mobi, ask any 1 of ur friend to message something on condom,and once u recieve the message u ask her as if u dont know anything about that. if she tells the use of that then she must use a word SEX so u ask her wat is sex and she answers this u need to inform. y i am asking to do these things is some of her friends might have kept or asked to keep it with her,and without knowing much about that she may be having in her bag.anyway i wish the result to be good.and remember this thing if u tell ur parents she may start to hate u but go a head bcos u r doing good to her.
2007-03-09 22:48:53 · answer #4 · answered by anand k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
initially assuming ur elder to her.She z just 14 so i think it must be because of curiosity.
u r elder to her talk sweetly gain her confidence and then "ask" neither lecture nor scolding just ask her if she really knows what it is.
If at all its not curiosity explain her very clearly about the step she z taking or has taken. wait for her to settle to your questions and explanation give her some time.
I am sure she will listen to u.
but under any circumstances untill and unless really necc. don't tell parents that will be a great havoc in her life.
she may stop expressing her feelings to any of you.
take care!
2007-03-09 22:51:11 · answer #5 · answered by perky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her in confidence and apologise for going through her wardrobe. 14 is too young and that is why you seem disturbed. If she is stubborn about it, tell her she could get some advice and maybe get your mom involved. Things should be sorted out calmly rather than hastily or in a fit of rage. Maybe she is just curious about things but whatever it is she needs to be talked to and explained things. Don't jump to any conclusions yet.
2007-03-09 20:49:29 · answer #6 · answered by AngelEyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do that, take her into your confidence, at her age its quite possible that she is just curious to know what a condom is. And iam very sure its just her curiosity nothing else. If you complain it to your parents she will never be able to face them or you again ever in life. Find out the reason before taking any action.
2007-03-09 20:56:30 · answer #7 · answered by jammy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, by the way how old are you? There is no need to tell anyone. Just remove it and see her reaction to it. Can be she had it just for curiosity, as it does mean she wanted to have sex with a partner. Can be she can use it even while trying to masturbate. A rough edge can hurt her, so maybe she is playing it safe. Let her experiment but watch her moves and dont tease her or exploit her in anyway as its all very very NATURAL. whatz your sex? m or fe?? bye for now..
2007-03-09 19:45:05 · answer #8 · answered by Jus4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should talk to anyone about it but her. Don't narc her out to your 'Rents. She will never trust you and don't hold it over her head as blackmail either. She's 14? If you are older then you should talk to her about making sure she ALWAYS uses a condom so she doesn't get an STD or get pregnant. If you are younger then .... Stay out of your sisters stuff!!
2007-03-09 18:47:36 · answer #9 · answered by forme2poopon73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it was used then she is having sex obviously. If it wasn't used then she is either thinking about it or already has. Talk to her about it first. I'm sure she would feel more comfortable with you. It would probably make the decision to tell ur parents easier after talking to her. Good luck!
2007-03-09 18:09:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋