Or freaked out at some point you even avoid the person? Sounds bizarre i know
2007-03-09 17:58:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I definitely get overly freaked out before a potential relationship/dating
Even to the point of psyching myself out and running away
I think I've grown out of that now, though.
I just over-analyze like it's my job.
2007-03-09 18:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not before a relationship, but before like the first few dates. if i am ready and willing for a relationship with a guy, i can't be nervous. i don't want to freak out or avoid them, but instead, i want to talk to them all the time and see them as often as i could. if you get freaked out and nervous, maybe it's the person, maybe you don't feel comfortable because for whatever reason, they aren't allowing you to be yourself. no person should make someone else feel that way and if you do, watch out, be sure about the person before the relationship begins.
2007-03-09 18:03:54 · answer #2 · answered by rubydoobydoo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah.
My current girlfriend, i asked her out just over a month ago, I was shaking for like three days every time i was with her.
It was weird, because I'm a fairly confident person. But anyway, it passed, and it wasn't long before I was perfectly comfortable hanging around with her.
-AOS
2007-03-09 18:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by Atrophy OS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yr self when u meet that special person, dress like u used to, don't show him or her u are nervous, that wont help u one bit and do not pay any unwanted remarks, u will be fine
2007-03-09 18:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens you must understand that a lot of people who havent had relationships before screw it up this way
to go through this phase you must face your fears, when you see her do not hesitate to talk, if she walks away than chances are she is a bad GF anyways. You want to be able to breathe and talk otherwise you are not prepared to handle a relationship
2007-03-09 18:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by ©-мαŧıžźŁє 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no not at all
it happens with me all the time
its like u like her still dont want her to realise that u like her so in a way u overdo not liking her and therefore start avoiding her
u have ppl like me fr company u r not alone but let me tell u we r a minority lot
2007-03-09 18:02:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did with my current honey because I had never had such deep feelings so fast for someone. I freaked myself out.
2007-03-09 18:02:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but it depends on the person too.
2007-03-09 18:02:42 · answer #8 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes everyone does, if u havent have met him or her before or u dont know how that person is.
2007-03-09 18:03:33 · answer #9 · answered by sunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we all get nervous,some just wont admit it.
2007-03-09 18:03:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋