This may sound wierd, but i want everyone to keep in mind that this girl really means alot to me and i think that i might actually love her, and she might too but i dunno. OK we dated for about 4 months, and it went through the summer so we saw eachother everyday, talked and everything. WE broke up at the begginging of the school year. I'd see her at school but it was kinda a harsh break up. She said she was busy, i said b.s.+ w/e . Anyways we got back together at X mas, but then broke up again cause she and i were busy, but this was friendly breakup and we talked still. She wrote me a note week b4 valentines day like 350 words, expressing how she was sorry 4 how she hurt me, and expresssing her feelings,but we broke up on valentines day again!We hardly look at eachother now and its like the first break up we had, i dont know what to do, she really is busy and all,i wanna confess how i know we should be together but i dont know how to. I think shes blocked me now on msn to get over me
2007-03-09 17:54:45 · 9 answers · asked by david edwards 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its kinda wierd right now, she looks at me , but not a glance or anything ,she looks at me enough jus so that i know shes looking , but no one else knows... cause i think shes telling people shes over me.. i dunno thou
2007-03-09 17:56:02 · update #1
Leave her alone for now. Her actions say she's not invested in you romantically. The fact that she broke up w you on Valentine's Day (Sheesh!) tells you she's either not ready for a mature relationship, or isn't interested in a mature r-ship with you.
She's blocking you on MSN. You'll come across as a stalker if you ignore her signals and keep pursuing her. Ignore her glances, chalk them up to head games at the very most.
2007-03-09 17:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by acrobatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you poor man, didn't you know it was your turn to make the move after the Valentine's break-up? Look at the chain of events...it was she who made the move (i.e., the long note) after the X'mas break-up so now it's your turn. Since you didn't do anything, she's now dropping hints that she no longer cares (it's a matter of self-preservation; it doesn't look good for our image that we're hanging on to someone who may no longer be interested).
So if you still want to salvage this relationship, you've got to move fast....kinda late already (should have happened within 7-10 days after 2/14) but give it a try anyway. If you love her (as you said you do), you must at least try.
But be prepared for a blow hot-blow cold relationship...that seems to be where you're heading.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-09 18:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has got to be another way to get ahold of her. You definately need to get those feelings off your chest. Try to call her, and if you can't get through that way snail mail might be a good old fashioned way to tell her how you really feel. Another thing you two need to realize is why you guys are breaking up on and off like you are. Reorganize priorities in your life, it takes two to make a relationship and schedules can get busy and seem to keep coming but love seems to last for brief moments in our lives. Keep trying, something will get through, and if anything, you'll have loved in your life and at least you'll have that.
2007-03-09 18:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be upset, but, I am gonna tell you like it is...sounds like she is very mixed up right now...what I would do, is get YOUR life going...in another direction...start dating other women....trust me...you may find yourself in more pain and anguish if you try to force this....I know that you really do care about this person..but, she sounds like she has some issues in her own life to work out...just let her do what she needs to..meanwhile...move on..and find a person who won't break your heart....find somebody you can really like and trust...who would BE THERE for you....more so, than your ex!
(Sorry, but, it doesn't sound like this woman, is "the right one" for you...)you can do a lot better!!
2007-03-09 18:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by Rivka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really dont think that she is busy or playing games with you because i really think that she is scared of actually loving you. i am scared for falling for this one guy that i do like but i keep telling him that i dont like him because i dont want to end up with him but for someone that i know i will like... the person that i do like but keep rejecting is some guy that i know only wants me for what i keep in my pants but she may be worried about something else... so tell her that you really care and that you will be there for her is she lets you and if she doesnt then find someone that will. because know one should go through that unless the girl has a goods reason like me to do it.
2007-03-09 18:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 18:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by shiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date another girl and she'll realize what she had with you and want it back. If you play into her and tell her how you should be together it'll only push her away. You gotta play these silly games to get what you really want.
2007-03-09 17:59:55 · answer #7 · answered by bearmuscle13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is the key, let her have her time,and see if that break up will be resolve but if not, let here be and i know it might be hard for you but come to think of in would it be harder if you love that someone and she never love you back remember"there are alot of fish in the sea but we only choose the best for us so choose wisely my friend"...
2007-03-09 18:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by jackusher16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel, but don't pressure her. write her a poem and express all that you are feeling for her. if your feeling are real it will give her something to at least think about.
2007-03-09 18:01:29 · answer #9 · answered by allkoei 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋