I have problems but I'm afraind to get help!?

Question

I am a cutter and I have anemia ...I have a need to loose weight and I can't I'm tired of feeling fat !!!!I'm afraind to tell my parents what I feel ,...what I'm going through!! I'm also confused about my sexuality im not sure if I like both genders.I had boyfriends but I never had a kiss {I only did lip to lip} !I told my friends about 1 month ago my problem and they told me I was just confused because all the relansionships I had failed~!.And because I had never do anything with a guy.But I think that far beyond.Because I know I like girls when I see them .I can tell my parents my sexuality problem because that againt our religion ! God made the woman for the man not woman for woman.What Can I do ?Should I get help?I can tell my parents anything! ...I know I have bulimia because I almost faint at school and I went to the nurse and she told me I have anemia ,Im not 100% sure because I don't have bulimia or anorexia {I'm fat}

Answer 1

any sort of depression can be tide over by faith in GOD and sincere prayer.

Your prayer is from your heart. Further You must have to understood the fact that God is present in our heart. This can be realised in meditation. Further we are the creation of our own destiny. As per Hindu sacred religion, we carry all good and bad deeds life after life. There is no end unless we pray for unification of self with the divineliness.
Hence there is always a possible way to complete mergence with God in this life by a simple and wonderful meditation

Answer 2

Problem is I am not sure how old you are, I am going to assume you are over 16yrs. You sound so confused I really feel for you, your self esteem sounds like it has hit rock bottom. Should you get help? I think you know the answer to that most definitely YES, tell your parents that you feel you need to be under the care of a GP and quickly, tell them as much as you feel comfortable with. Sexuality can be confusing when you are growing into womanhood, and I don't feel it is a issue you should be dealing with at this very moment, so try and put that aside for a while. Get your health on track, being a cutter is a huge cry for help, be kind to yourself and in time everything will fall into place. I truly wish you the very best for a happy and fruitful life

Answer 3

Ok hun, you are dealing with a lot of different things and it is overwhelming you. You need to know that most kids your age are going through something similar. And you need to know that your parents went through something similar when they were younger.

You are cutting because you either need to make yourself feel pain or you are punishing yourself. You need to figure out why you are hurting yourself. By figuring out why you feel the need to cut you will start to gain some control of your life.

Your sexual identity is yours and yours alone. There is nothing wrong with you liking girls and boys. You are young and you are still figuring out what you like. If you decide to be bisexual, lesbian, or heterosexual it is your decision and it has nothing to do with who you are as a person.

Relationships are hard at any age. I am a 38 year old therapist and I have two failed marriages. But I have learned from my mistakes and now I choose better guys. You will have many relationships in your future. I know that everything seems so raw and unfair but all teenagers feel that way. You need to find a friend or a parent with whom you can really share your deepest secrets with. When I was your age I felt I couldn't talk to my mom. She was very religious and strict so I kept everything to myself and never shared anything with her. I regret that. I have a great relationship with her now and I wish I hadn't wasted all that time.

Life will get better for you. Things will change, you will grow, and you will have a good life. I have a great life. I love my life. But I didn't feel that way when I was a teenager. I spent many years drinking and being a negative person until I finally took a look at myself and decided to change.

You need to know something about losing weight. The only way to lose weight is if you eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner. I have a doctor and a nurse who comes to talk to my clients about weight loss and they have shown me proven statistics showing that more people lose weight by eating breakfast than the people who don't.

Why are you punishing yourself? You are cutting yourself and you have an eating disorder along with anemia. For some reason you are trying to make yourself feel pain. Maybe you want to feel something real or maybe you are punishing yourself. You should talk to a school counselor. I have been a therapist for years and what I have learned is that when people finally get help or counseling for themselves after the years they put it off, they find that they feel tremendously better. Take the step and do something to help yourself. You can email me, just click on my avatar and get my email that way.

Answer 4

You seem to be having too many problems to be helped by this type of online services and the best will be to confide in your parents and seek professional help. Your fatness could be linked to your anemia (YES, ANEMIA MAKES YOU FAT SOMETIMES). You may not have bulimia but simple hunger pangs because you starve other times. Your bisexuality can be discussed with the doctor not with your parents. So, dear child, go ahead and tell your parents about your other problems. God bless.

Answer 5

Why are you crying out for attention in all these ways? Are you really ready to get down and focus on you? There are a ton of ways I can help you (even online), if you are ready and willing to put yourself first and work on you. You can read through my last best answer for some ideas on things you should maybe pursue. .

Answer 6

I answer this only as support. not for the right answers. as you can read above there are a lot of good answers. but in agreement with them. get help. and sooner than later. as for the bisexuality, I understand that you don't want to speak with your parents about that. again talk to a professional who can help. hope this helps good luck

Answer 7

you should talk to your doctor or a school counciler,or a psychiatrist someone who will listen and not tell your parents. You need to get help soon or this condition could seriosly hurt or even kill you.