Basically me and this guy made out on our first date. We are 20. He initiated it and I wasnt uncomfortable so I didnt stop him. I just felt chemistry with him. I am not easy, I'm a virgin still and want to be until I am in love. Did we ruin it by making out on the first date?
2007-03-09 17:44:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, but ...
You better explain thr ground rules before round two.
2007-03-09 17:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your guns on waiting, but kissing him on the first date is no reason why you would have screwed up. Just make sure to set firm boundries with him as far as what you are comfortable with. 20 yo guys can be very convincing with trying to get you know what.
And dont feel like you were easy by making out on the first date. Its good that value your body in that way. Quite a few people get into a situation where they wake up next to the person the morning after a first date and ask them selves if they ruined a chance at a relationship. Help put things in perspective for you
2007-03-10 01:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by hlind28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can certainly have a relationship...just because you kissed on your first date doesn't mean anything, other than you both really like each other!
Do yourself a favour, and extend your virginity until you are actually married. Sometimes we can be tricked into thinking we're in love with someone, and then later we work out that maybe they aren't the one for us...
I think you are courageous, and have a good head on your shoulders- and if you feel that you want something to happen with this guy, then you should go for it- he may be the love of your life!
2007-03-10 01:59:38 · answer #3 · answered by SheDevilBelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth -if a guy were really taken with a girl on a first date, he would be happy just to be with her
I suspect you are attracted to jerks (lying,cheating, controlling males) - actually quite natural for most women, but something to be aware of
Many women can only rachet up the big "chemistry" for jerks and therefore end up ONLY dating jerks - so in that case - they need to get the best jerk available - ie one with no rap sheets, prison time, upcoming trials, or current parole or probation etc or violent behavior toward their women
2007-03-10 04:24:26 · answer #4 · answered by JET99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily, but he'll be expecting it to happen again and further..so you shouldve waited a bit. If you wanna be a virgin till your in love then tell him and you can make out...but let me warn you...if this keeps up you wont be a virgin for very long so if u do use condoms!!
2007-03-10 02:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by amor_dove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 20 not 14. its no big deal that you kissed him on the first date.
2007-03-10 01:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you didn't ruin it. If you felt chemistry then there is nothing wrong in going for it.
2007-03-10 01:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by ezzel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you define as "making out"? Kissing? Groping? It's been my experience girls give it up around the third date but that's up to you.
2007-03-10 01:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see why. And good for you that your waiting.
2007-03-10 01:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by justanobservation-notajudgement 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no not at all...
2007-03-10 01:50:54 · answer #10 · answered by fcukn princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋