were both 17. this girl has pillow fights with me, puts her photo into my phone as wallpaper, calls up my friends, even parents for jokes, even though i dont find it amusing, always laughs at my jokes, she gets very close to me, and wont move away.....and likes to touch me alot, and play with things i have. i get mixed signals though, as sometimes during the day she wont talk to me at all, cause she studies, but when were together she cant stop talking, and offering me food, and drinks, and going out places.One thing she does alot is curls up and goes to sleep for like a minute,and then wakes up, and does it again......whats all this mean???she also tells me about times when shes stressed at school and so forth....one thing thats really wierd though, she likes to know what her name is on my phone when it rings???.........need help, im from canada btw guys. I like this girl heaps, and need her to know that, cause im really scared of losing her to someone else.
2007-03-09 17:40:04 · 11 answers · asked by d p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she just told me the other day, that this guy is after her, and that she doesnt know what to do, and she was wondering what i thought???......im hurting inside, but dont know if i should go for it or not??? she said it was an ex of hers who wants to try again. Also, i asked her for lunch once, and she never replied, then the same day she spoke to me later on, and acted as if nothing had happened, playing dumb of course, and didnt even mention me asking her for lunch via txt. Well yesterday, this girl advised me that shes going to the movies tonght with one of her ex's(dnno if on a date or not though), is she still into me or has already moved on?i saw her before, and she kept punching me before i left, and making contact.....whats all this mean?, im scared of losing her thats for sure, and i dont think ill like her if she goes out with someone anyway.....so please advise what i should do...
2007-03-09 17:40:58 · update #1
Not into you eh.
Pillow fights = Friend Zone eh.
Wanting your opinion on other guys = Friend Zone eh.
You asked her oot and nothing happened = Friend Zone eh.
Forget her and move on eh.
2007-03-09 17:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to the most serene and positive place you can. Hide your phone, Sit across from one another and tell her your likes and pet peeves about what she dose. You are both young. I know that 17 year olds really don't like to hear or see these words. But trust in them that they mean more than you know.
You both are coming in to your most hormonal stage of life. You must for your self put that to the side and look at the big picture. Do you really feel the two of you are ready for a one and only one relationship. What if you were in her shoes and the guy was after you. What would happen? Best Wishes
2007-03-09 18:00:12 · answer #2 · answered by real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love interests or whatever seem to have a momentum influence. If you brush off a potential interests maybe because the timing is off they usually will not rekindle their interest in you. I believe they are getting even for you disappointing them and would rather hold that then to possibly to have a relation with you at some other time. Its a matter of "they did not want me then and they are not going to get me now so there?"It would prove that they had a short attention span interest in you anyway and is not big deal. I would extend myself a little more one last time or otherwise let them pout and move on. Good luck!
2016-03-28 22:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Dp, This girl likes you a lot. She is testing you. When she called you on the phone and ask you what her name was,she was trying to see if you would of said another girls name( like a slip up... seeing another girl) get it. She is also seeing if you will get jealous about her going to the movies with someone else. Is this making things more clear for you!!! She wants to know how much you like her and that's why shes doing these things. I hope you understand now.
A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-03-09 17:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She sounds like a friend. I would tell her how you feel and if shes not interested just move on. I know it will hurt but its better that you know now. This will give you a chance to find new girls but also understand where you stand in that relationship. Be honest.
2007-03-09 17:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by justanobservation-notajudgement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For sure she really likes you but you are not making any moves...when she tells you about other guys that are interested in her it means that she wants to see your reaction and make you jealous or for you to close the deal. Maybe she going out with her ex because u are not saying nothing and she is hurt and wants you to stop her.(i know this because when i was young i did immature things like her) you dont know how else to deal with it--the right and mature way is talking
2007-03-09 17:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by amor_dove 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's simple: If you want to date her, go after her. If she doens't want to date you right now then you need to move on. You are both still young and she may want to date you in the future if she doesn't right now.
She seems to be showing you all the signs that she's into you but if you aren't doing major about it, then she may think you're not interested.
People are weird. She may have the idea that if a guy likes her, he'll ask her to date. If the guy doesn't ask, then he doesn't like her.
2007-03-09 17:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by Erin H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go get her u need her express u feelings for her u guys might break up after high school
2007-03-09 17:45:00 · answer #8 · answered by ser7129 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
most of it sounds like your in the friend zone. tell her you like her, maybe she likes you too
2007-03-09 17:47:42 · answer #9 · answered by phrani c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u sould go for it. it seem slike she likes u pretty much. tell her how u feel about her. aww u must like her alot. good luck!!!
2007-03-09 17:44:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋