my bf keeps telling me he will call me back later, but never calls!!! why? he also talks to me differently when we are alone, and when we are on the phone, but when he is with his friends he is a butthead!!! why? help me?
2007-03-09 17:23:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes not that into you anymore...move on....he is probably a jerk...you can do better than him...trust me
2007-03-09 17:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by hey_thanks_you_guys 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because he's not being real. I know that all guys act different around other peole like they dont talk to you about certain things you guys would usually talk about alone so thats just normal. But when your guy ignore you or treat you different in front of people imagine how he act behind your back. You can see how a person is by the way they act most of the time. If your guy is proud to be your boyfriend he will walk around the hallway holding your hand. If he always never call you after he said he will then he probably busing doing something else. Which you should be mad about if its happening all the time because you should be important to him too..RIGHT??
so get it moving girl. he basically aint proud. So why should you.
2007-03-10 01:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by honeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical Male. When they start breaking promises and not calling back. That means something is up with you two. Not sure what, but thats the one thing I hate about a guy is when he acts diffrent around his friends. Its a "macho" kind of thing. They have to show off, or to show that they aren't whipped or whatever they try to show who's boss. And yeah, it makes them look pathetic. If I were you I would call your boyfriend, and be like "look I know somethings wrong, you wont call me back". Or he's just busy. You never know with guys these days. Well hope everything works out for you ! <3
2007-03-10 01:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by girlofyourdreams_6905 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he isnt calling you back because he either doesnt like talking on the phone, is busy a lot, or needs space. Those are the most common reasons for that. But it sounds to me like all he is doing is showing off in front of his friends. You DEFINITELY dont need that. Its annoying, and immature. You deserve better. Get rid of him.
2007-03-10 02:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by Lauren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He keeps ignoring you because you have taught him that it's ok to treat you without respect.
When he fails to call you, the next time he calls you're too busy to see him.
When he treats you like crap in front of your friends, don't take it. Say, loudly and in front of everyone: "I will not be spoken to that way. When you remember how to treat me, you know where to find me." Then walk away.
He'll either get the message, or you'll get tired of trying to teach him manners and leave him for good. Either way, your problem will be solved.
2007-03-10 01:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes immature and doesnt deserve you.....but the not calling you back think is nothing....i kno that i tell ppl ill call them back all the time and i never do i just forget or im too busy .....but because he treats you differently in front of his friends means that his friends mean more to him and hes not ready to have a girlfriend
2007-03-10 01:28:17 · answer #6 · answered by fcukn princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damm, I'm like you. My bf complains abt me all the time to his friends-plus i know he tells them abt every fight we have. it's weird that bfs sometimes treat friends better than gfs...guys are jerks sometimes...clueless and aloof. If you can accept him for who he is, stick with it. But if not, lose him-because its doubtful you can change who and how he is.
2007-03-10 01:28:48 · answer #7 · answered by Noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a man too, so I'm going to tell it straight. Uhm, when I ignore my girl, it means that I want some space. And there are times that I want PERMANENT SPACE. However, there are also times that I just want to be alone.
2007-03-10 01:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by JoeySmith 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Does he play World of Warcraft?? That is why mine ignores me!
2007-03-10 01:28:47 · answer #9 · answered by tara b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probably just embrased to have you around. not in a bad way. hes with his friends. and when you with your friends it funny and stuff. but when hes with you its probably the only things that matters because hes ONLY with you
2007-03-10 01:27:24 · answer #10 · answered by dragonflyxfairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably found someone else. Dump him, and move on! You deserve better.
2007-03-10 01:37:36 · answer #11 · answered by poetry_dreamer2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋