So, I talk to this girl everyday in the morning and after school, and I have known her for 2 years, and have liked her since we meet. I am very shy when it comes to talking to most girls, mostly due to my fear of you.
But, What would be the best way to approach her and talk to about my feelings for her?
2007-03-09 17:21:17 · 14 answers · asked by I am Noodles! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What I would NOT do...is tell her right away how much you adore her..etc....first get to know her...like ask her to walk with you, or go for coffee, or hang out like for a picnic somewhere..at say a park or a beach..etc...do something around other people....even a faire...or watching something outdoors...etc...something interesting and fun!
this way, it is a lot more easy going...and you both can share and talk to one another..and get to know if you think it will work with the two of you....
Good luck..Hope you have a lot of fun!
2007-03-09 17:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by Rivka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her out to coffee, or better yet-do a group thing! Movies and group socials are the best, there is sure to be more than just 1 person to talk to if things go weird with her. I'd say don't push anything on her, some girls get scared off...I usually do, but when a guy lets me go to him when I'm ready or when I want to, I'm more comfortable with him...:et her come to you.
2007-03-10 01:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by Noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not girl but i try to be the love doc, make sure she likes you
make he blush when you talk, make her laugh but with stupid jokes, no racist crap. when she starts laughing like all drunk or she looks you in the eyes and you see her eyes moving back forth from your left to your right eye, you know its time. When you come to her, bring a flower, ask ahead of time what her favorite is, only one not a bouquet. When you bring this special flower to her, write a note, but dont make it corny. Dont put in the note you love her and ****, write a cutsie poem, say you love her and all that crap after you read the poem, yes read it to her.
Bring it to her, early in the morning so you have lots of time, when she opens it, read it aloud with your arm around her on a bench, then when your done, look her straight, she will try and look away but tell her what you feel, make sure your not cold and you ate well cause there will be a pit in your stomach. It is fightening but it's worth it eh
just remember, dont make it obvious your doing something
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2007-03-10 01:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by ©-мαŧıžźŁє 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her like you usually do. One day ask her if she would like to do something with you (something you both enjoy). Then this would be a great time to tell her about your feelings. But dont go too over the top, she may get freaked out. Good luck and remember just to be yourself.
2007-03-10 01:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by Jazmin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to starbucks or somewhere nice nothing fancy ofcourse, and after your laughing and smiling and sitting down say, (just a suggestion :) )
hey you know it funny how long we've known eachother (smile). (let her reply) And you say well ive liked you ever since we've met, (start listing why you like her). I think your cool..blah blah..
Good luck
2007-03-10 01:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by justanobservation-notajudgement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do would be not to bother.
You're in the friend-zone. There is no escape.
Ideally you'll just forget her and move on, but that can take time.
2007-03-10 01:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ii would ask her for her number, if you have it already start calling her occasionally, and then talk to her more at school, if your already like really good friends with her, then i would invite her to the movies, and then tell her u want to go to the movies with her as your date, not a friend, and see how she reacts, if she is pretty cool with it, i would make my move by simply asking her out...hope this helps!
2007-03-10 01:26:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her straight out...with out giving her hints and so on, just tell her how you feel. say something like " i've gotten to know you, and the truth is i love everything about you, and i cant get you off my mind. would you be interested in being with me?"
2007-03-10 01:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIND SOMETHING U HAV IN COMMON AND TALK ABOUT IT OR ASK HER IF SHE WANTS 2 GO WITH U AND UR FRIENDS 2 DA MOVIES AND SHE CAN BRING HER FRIENDS! SHE'LL SEE DAT U R A COOL GUY AND WANT 2 HANG OUT W HER AND HER FRIENDS
2007-03-10 01:26:01 · answer #9 · answered by ∴⇒☆❝ ŧħåłĩą ❞☆⇐∴ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by now she probably considers u as a freind so ur gonna have to just be strait forward w her or she wont have any idea that u like her.
2007-03-10 01:27:26 · answer #10 · answered by elaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋