The longest relationship I have had was two weeks. I can't seem to find a good guy. I am not sure if it's me or them. I am wondering if I should seek counseling about this. My ex did me wrong.
2007-03-09 17:19:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is probably you. There are good guys all over the place, and if you are like most women you've been rejecting them your whole life in favor of the sort of guys who will do you wrong.
Counselling could be useful, you may have some issues relating to your sexuality.
2007-03-09 17:26:23 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Showmele
It is you> you are picking the wrong guys for you. Stop and think what do you want in a guy. Do you want a party animal that is fun all the time. But is not ready to settle down. I tell girls to look for a boring guy that wants to work for his family and come home and make love to you every night. A guy that will open the door on the car for you not jump in all cool looking. If he is dressed with the best cloths do you want to have him spend all of the family money on his suits. If he drives the best car do you think when you get married you will have the best car,or him. Men should have their women top in their life. You should be driving the most reliable car not him. Look at the guys you like from a distance and see how he acts towards the girls he is with. Good luck pick a guy that loves you not one you love that just wants in your skirt.
2007-03-10 01:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by kiss4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That bastard! He shouldn't have done that to you.
You should seek counseling only if you feel there is no other option.
For me I like being single and every once in a while meeting someone who has the same interests. It's fun even though it is only for a few weeks.
2007-03-10 01:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by Tyson boy's dad 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ah I see...well for one, your view of men may be tarnished somewhat now by that ex of yours. A good guy is out there somewhere, just not apparent at the moment. He may be right under your nose!
Also, I have had so many relationships that were far too short to even remember them much, so no worries.
If you need to vent or talk about that last relationship of yours, feel free to contact me. Glad to be of service and best of luck in the future.
2007-03-10 01:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by Somebody Real 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
preach on...i hear that. just start telling everyone you know you are single and go out with as many people as possible even the ones your mom reccomends. im doing that now, and i think that the more people you meet, the bigger your sample size is to try to find your match. good luck girl, im on the same boat!
2007-03-10 01:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by nonphysical 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well no- for the counseling , but no offence but what do you see in the mirror ? a smile
2007-03-10 01:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by kelly 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to http://www.yahoopersonals.com
http://www.onlinedating.com
Hope cupid strikes the right arrow next round.
U live and learn.
2007-03-10 01:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it could be that you just have not found the one for you.but
if you feel that it a serious problem then talk to someone.
2007-03-10 01:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋