I was just wondering what guys thought of girls who would have sex on around the 3rd or 4th date, (like kine of before u were exclusive in the relationship)? Would this be a turn off that the woman may be "easy" or would you keep it going? Thanks!
2007-03-09 17:14:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you have not had sex by the first date no third date
2007-03-09 17:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how the relationship is going and it would also make a difference in how long I've actually known the woman. There is no cut and dry answer because all situtations are different. I don't always look down upon women that have sex early it just shows that they know what they want out of the relationship. I wouldn't make it a point to give it up too early because sometimes a woman can appear easy if she gives up the goods too fast.
2007-03-09 17:22:44 · answer #2 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Haley,
Sex on the third date would really be special to me. Usually,
I'm such a gentleman that sex on (or after) any date is very far
from my mind. I always strive to please the lady in any way
that she may desire. Her total pleasure is my primary concern
any time we're dating, whether it's the first date or the tenth
date. Maybe I'm moving too slow for some girls, but many
girls and young women CALL ME when they want a date.
So, sex on the third date would be special and I certainly wouldn't turn it down----it's great!
2007-03-09 17:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by SlownEasy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What took so long? That should happen after the 1st date, so you can move on to the next girl. Or maybe she digs you, and doesn't wanna lose you for a stupid thing like lack of sex. So the balls in your court dude. Keep her, or toss her. You've reached the sex part... sounds like a keeper to me.
2007-03-09 17:19:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same that I would think of a man that has sex on the 3rd date. You both had sex on the 3rd day, not only her!
2007-03-09 17:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by PRLadyDama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my guy and i did it on the second date, 9 years ago! we are not married but we are still together and have a 7 year old son. so, i guess it depends on the guy and the girl. sorry I'm not a guy but thought a true story with a good ending might help. although i wouldn't recommend doing it so soon. i think i just got lucky.
2007-03-09 17:19:31 · answer #6 · answered by heather l 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did she take so long? What's wrong with me,that she held out for so long? Do I have a rash or something?
For me, it never mattered on how many dates were needed. Some women are different then others. I was attracted to them for different reasons. So some took longer then others.
2007-03-09 17:21:27 · answer #7 · answered by Tyson boy's dad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there was no sex on the second date, there would not be a third date. Sex on the third date should be more relaxed and better than it was on the second date.
2007-03-09 17:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking because you already did, or because you want to? If you already did, I don't think its that big of a deal if its a guy you really like. I wouldn't make a habit of it, but i doubt he thinks you're a slut. I wouldn't. First date I would for sure, though.
2007-03-09 17:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by Stingo 34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep going with her just for fun, but to be honest, I prefer a challenge to it. Much more gratifying and the passion has time to build. So yeah, it would be pretty much a turn off. I would start to look else where as well.
2007-03-09 17:18:27 · answer #10 · answered by Somebody Real 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋