so there's this guy in one of my classes.. and i'm a sophomore. he's a junior. i remember seeing him in the halls when i was a freshman and admiring him from afar. Now that we have a class together, i want to turn my admiration into maybe something more. Conveniently, we sit next to each other, but we only talk on average once a week. it's really aggravating because i like him a whole lot, and i'm scared to start conversations. last week we argued about which numbers were "cooler" than other numbers. it was fun.. but then we didnt talk for the rest of the week. today he finally spoke to me again.. just out the blue.. about some movie. and i kinda put my foot out into the aisle today, and when i did that, he put his foot out too. sometimes if we're doing something in class, he'll just ask me randomly.. even though he knows that subject isn't my best. i'm confused. what does he want?
2007-03-09 16:59:42 · 8 answers · asked by Maria18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's interested in you, but he just has this feeling that if you don't like him, then he should follow suit. Cause he doesn't want to look like the dumb one who's doing all the chasing. You should take the initiative and try softening things up between you two like saying 'hi' whenver you two meet and just strike up friendly conversations like how he's been doing.
2007-03-09 17:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by Soaring 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i b lieved this dude is on the same level as u meanin both of u know wats yall want yall just cant find a way to come at each other with out bein shy about it.
well i think if u really want something n u know for a fact its gonna worth your time go for it stop being shy n be dat bigger person n put it out before u choke ur self
2007-03-10 01:09:39 · answer #2 · answered by kblazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, guys, in general, from my psychological knowledge, like to argue with each other and then go out for a beer, regardless of their differences. Women, on the other hand, try to find ways to sympathize with each other and relate different issues and feelings. I'm guessing this is confusing to you because of the difference between men and women. He likes the fact that you argued with him and wants to go out for a beer with you because of it, but, because of our differences, you find this very unusual and strange! I'm guessing that he likes you but you are both confused because of this difference! Try doing some research into this and see if what I am taking about makes sense, and then maybe ask him if he would like to go for a beer with you!
2007-03-10 01:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting with him when you're not in class, such as lunch or after school. Maybe he feels that as long as you're both in class, he has to play by the rules; if that's the case, then you can go further when you're out. See how simple that was?
2007-03-10 01:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step up talk 2 him more make him notice you because if you don`t then he could get girlfriend and you could be to late so make him notice you are there!!!!!
2007-03-10 01:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by Kortnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the flow, girl. don't ask what he wants. ask yourself what you want. initiate. be more friendly, subtly. you can do it. you seem to be good together. there is a certain chemistry. follow your gut feeling.
2007-03-10 01:06:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont confused dear i think its something diffrent from friendship carry on and dont try to do anything fastly if u realy like him.
2007-03-10 01:20:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over your fears, and talk to him.
Then you'll know
2007-03-10 01:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋