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The one I love won't talk to me. All she wants to do is leave.
I mention anything about what's bothering me, and the first thing I hear is "I'm not going to stand here and listen to this sh**"!
What am I supposed to do?
I'm not a saint by any means, and I realize I crowd her at times.
But it almost feels like she's tired of me, and my feelings don't matter.
She doesn't seem to want to communicate with me at all.
I hate the way I feel all the time, and it's gotten to where I don't say anything right.
It feels as though her friends, her habbits, and everything comes before me.
Is it time to go?

2007-03-09 16:47:34 · 10 answers · asked by weazle 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

10 answers

IT"S OVER.
Read those two words reapetedly.

What you are supposed to do is get on with your life. It's easier said than done, of course, but this person does NOT love you. Trying to stay close to her is ruining your soul.

Yes, it's time to go. Don't kid yourself, though, it's going to hurt. Real bad. Make sure you have the phone numbers of your best friends ready. You'll be needing them.

Call it quits, bro. Heal your heart and find someone who's worthy of you.
Best Wishes!

2007-03-09 16:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by aquaman2964 3 · 0 1

Is it time to go? Yes. How do you walk away? One step at a time... No one deserves to be in an insecure relationship, and you're in it. It will be hard, because you obviously care, but she doesn't want to know about your feelings. That is not a caring relationship, but a one-sided one. There's someone out there that is going through the same thing that you are thinking the same things. The question is If you were them, would you stay? And what would you recommend them to do?

2007-03-10 00:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

No matter how deep we feel for someone and how we want to try to make it work, we can never change how someone once they have made up their mind. Unless they still have strong feelings for you, then it's usually hopeless. If the more you try, the more they back away, then it's time to let go. It's going to hurt like HELL, but it's only when they come back to you on their own with sincerity that you know it was meant to be. If it makes you feel better, write her a letter and tell her every darn thing you want in your heart and then move on......

2007-03-10 00:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by artutina 4 · 0 1

I would love for a man to care so much for me.. You deserve someone that will love u the way you love them.. And I promise she is out there. Communication is the key to a successful relationship and you are certainly doing your part. As hard as it is , Walk away.... She will realize what she has lost. You deserve happiness.. Everyone does.

2007-03-10 01:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by happyjoye 1 · 0 1

That thing about how there are other fish in the sea? Its true. What you have to know is that your feelings are important, and you shouldn't be with someone who you can't "crowd" with your feelings. They aren't a bother, they are an integral part of who you are. You should have the freedom to be 100% complete in yourself with whoever you are with.

2007-03-10 00:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by Think Harder 2 · 0 1

it seems like a one sided relashionship maybe u made more out of it then she did u need to move on find someone who can be as caring and deep as u icant figure some women out when a man gives them love and respct thats when they run i would show her that i could replace her hold your head up get busy with your life shell be on her knees in no time thats the kind of women she is goodluck

2007-03-10 01:01:48 · answer #6 · answered by christian1974 1 · 0 1

have a serious talk with her first. describe your feelings in clear words. let her understand that. if she won't listen to you, ask her if she has a problem of her own. maybe she is also frustrated about something. if after all exhaustive efforts, you can't still communicate with her, maybe it is time to call it quits and let each other free. a relationship without communication is bound to fail eventually. good luck.

2007-03-10 00:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Theres no point at staying when the other isn't caring anymore. I'd leave if I were you, there are so many other women out there that are so much better hun! Good luck!

2007-03-10 00:52:05 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0 1

I think you should let go. Maybe she'll miss you if you leave her alone for a while. Maybe, she won't and it just means it was time to seperate and find somone who really does care for you.

2007-03-10 00:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by Lana 3 · 0 1

it might be time to go, i mean if she really is treating u that way. she prpobably wants space, irritated. u no? if a girl is treeatin u that way, means she mgiht really not want to be wit u no longer. i mean coming from me. and u no, no one is worth your tears. i have an understanding of how u feel. its hurts so baaaaaaadddd. sniffles. um yeah and remember dont show her your weak side. also remeber this " you dont realize wat u have until its gone..." let her realize wat she aint got. u feel me? keep your head up.

2007-03-10 00:55:42 · answer #10 · answered by shalala 2 · 0 1

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