All the ladies I have taken out in the past , cost money. Be wonderful if they like me for what I am, not what I got. I have a hard time find that perfect lady. HELP ME!...please.
2007-03-09 16:37:58 · 29 answers · asked by randyfleitman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you dont need to spend money to win a gurls heart... you just need to show her that you are caring and lovable... cook for her, watch a movie at home, cuddle, go swimming at night, take a strole in the park, things like that.... there are plenty of things you can do without spending money.....
2007-03-09 16:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by ~ * ~713PR!NC3$$713~ * ~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I won't lie to you money is nice. A female looks beyond how much money a guy has. Yes we are brought up to want a man who is able to take care of. What that means is a man who will appreciate a woman. To win the heart of a woman respect her. Treat her as if she is the one and only person you desire. Listen to her, don't lie, and take her for who she is. A woman will compromise in a relationship. Give a little but don't ever try and CHANGE something you don't like about her. That's a road str8 to single's way if you try it. I woman always looks a potential guy with an open heart and mind. Well the women I know do. Be you and don't give off the funk of despiration. Women can smell that and it's a sure fire turn off. It's like women are always saying a good man is hard to find. Well the same goes for guys. Relax and the right woman will come to you or you will notice her. Good luck.
2007-03-09 16:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by giya_98 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make something for her... No matter what it is- dinner, dessert, furnature, a bouquet of flowers you picked, a card, or a poem. Take her on a picnic or walk. That takes the most effort, yet it is the easiest, heart-to-heart talking you can get. As long as you did it, it is sure to score high. Make sure she's not vegetarian or allergic to anything, though! lol... Sing a song to her no matter how bad and lame it is. Mostly, make her laugh, but don't go overboard, since a serious person might be taken back by it. Though, being loyal is number one to me.
Good luck winning her!
2007-03-09 16:45:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am actually uncomfortable if a man keeps spending money on me.
I prefer honesty.
If you are honest with me from the start I can enjoy being around you.
Some guys think it is ok to omit certain details about themselves cause they may offend me, or they may think that I will think that they are a freak. And that is fair enough.
However I look at it this way, if you cannot be honest with me from the start when you have no reason to lie, or you omit certain details when you have no reason to, I will naturally expect that you will not be honest or you will omit details when it does matter. That is to say when it is more than just getting to know one another at stake.
I hope that makes sense
2007-03-09 16:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by Spikey and Scruffy's Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Haha without spending a lot of money? You should be in comedy.
Women judge a guy based almost entirely on his bank balance. If you can find any women interested in you when you have no money then they are absolute keepers because then you can be reasonable sure that she genuinely likes you.
2007-03-09 18:11:11 · answer #5 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Winning someones heart has nothing to do with money, only shallow girls care about that. All you have to do, besides waiting for 'The One and Only' is to be sweet and respect women. If you like a girl ..woo her. talk to her friends. Most girls know what their friends favorite things are. So once you know her favorite, flower, song, hobby etc. ,use those to win her over. Also just some insights, what I like in a guy is for him to be quick witted, brave, loves adventure, treats women as equals but doesn't expect them to do manly work, don't pressure her to do anything, be caring for others as well, it makes you more genuine. Just be your sweet self and you'll find your girl.
2007-03-09 16:44:39 · answer #6 · answered by Jaroo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Write letters, poems, hand pick roses, throw stones at her bedroom window, put a small gift somewhere and each day leave her little clues as to where the gift is, after a few days she will find it and that gift will mean so much to her, more than a really expensive gift because you went to alot of trouble and thought it through. She will then know that your serious. Good Luck!!!!!!!!
2007-03-09 16:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you are not meeting the right kind of girls. Be comfortable with yourself. Ladies like to feel like they are the most important person in their others life, they like to feel special. Look for ways to romance her, for most guys this sounds corney, but it works. Poetry, romantic music, a good chick-flick, some hand picked flowers picked on a walk you take together, get to know what is important to her. Listen when she talks and look for ways to impress her, she will give you clues as you get to know more about her.
2007-03-09 17:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by Brandius0 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
before everything to be that ineffective to no longer placed the bonnet on is ridiculous. 2d of all, a real savvy stylish could be arranged for this type of misadventure by ability of consistently carrying a small handbag sized umbrella together with her. Nuff mentioned
2016-12-14 15:19:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, I know for me if a guy keeps canceling on me, and lies about little things it bugs me alot, but (this probably doent apply o many others)if he's cheating on me and is honest about it and comes clean, I'm not upset at all. So definatly tell the truth, it just makes life easier, and she'l respect you alot more.
2007-03-09 16:42:39 · answer #10 · answered by getshorty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋