i have a wonderful wife that i love with all of my heart. we have 2 children together and a wonderful marriage. she has a been with me and treated me right through everything. i went on deployment and she stayed faithful through it all. i want to know why black women cant accept that we love each other?
2007-03-09 15:48:15 · 40 answers · asked by sugars peanut 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
who cares what others think, dog? If you and your wife are happy, that is all you need to worry about. my best to yall..
2007-03-09 15:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by leroy_w_jackson 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are far more Black men that seek out White women than there are Black women that seek out White men. This leaves an unbalanced (and unpopular) side in which the Black woman feels short. What's right or wrong is irrelevant in this matter. Some just feel like they got the short end of the stick. I'm glad to hear your in a happy relationship. This is only my take on the situation tho...any takers care to elaborate? Peace.
2007-03-09 15:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by Alaskaman 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't care about what other people think. Some black women get mad when they see an attractive and presumeably successful black man with a white woman because they really wish that they were with that guy or think that white women will steal all of "our" men. Yet most of these angry black women would gladly date a white man and have no problem with that.
Whenever I dated a white man I got the same reactions from black men. As if I shouldn't be with him and should be with a black man instead. I still get those reactions when I am with my husband and he is black he is just very light skinned he could pass for spanish or something. Don't worry about it. You love your wife, she loves you so just be happy and enjoy your marriage.
2007-03-12 17:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a black woman and I don't care if ur wife is white. I think if two people love each other than they should be together. I see mixed couples together all the time and it doesnt bother me at all. And u can't say it's just black women, becuz there are a lot of white women that dont think that black guys shouldnt be with white women either. So u should just say women, not black women-all of us dont feel like that....
2007-03-09 15:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by dcutegirl06 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't say all black women. This doesn't apply to all of us. I'm a black woman, and I could care less about who a black guy is dating or married to because I date outside of my race as well. Even if I didn't I would still respect it, and besides it's none of my business and nobody else's either. Ignore these women and live for you. So what they don't like it. That's their problem. If your happy then continue to be. Your wasting your time trying to prove something to these black women. They will still feel the same way so forget about how they feel or what they think. It's not about them accepting it because you don't owe them anything. Live your life and be happy because it's the only and last one you have.
2007-03-12 02:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me first say that love is color blind, & it does not matter what color you are as long as you are in love. I'm glad you found love and 2 beautiful kids & I hope God continues to bless your marriage. But lets be real for a moment. It is no secret that some black men say they will not date black women hands down. I hear this all the time. I will not go into the hurtful details. Am I the only one living in the real world here? Maybe it is the black man that is racist against his own women. I hope this is not you though. Keep your head up = )! Food for thought.
Whoever says they love God but hate their brother is a liar. --God.
2007-03-11 12:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by LOVE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a white woman I can honestly tell you I think many black women haven't a whole lot of love for the white woman (or are they mean in general?) I live in a predominately white area so I am not an expert but I can tell you they scare the begeeziZ out of me because of the way they look at me and the comments they say amongst each other.I am not insecure and like everyone I talk to everyone,and just love people.Most people are sucked in by my charming personality......Hey maybe they don't like me because I got a big ol Ghetto boo tie!!Yep to much junk in the trunk !!! No just teasing I think there tired of white women taking there men because they like to keep their boys just that "their boys"I wouldn't worry about it you have a wonderful wife and 2 wonderful kids so who cares what anyone thinks but you and your wonderful family.
2007-03-09 16:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by FYIIM1KO 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
WOW.... your an ***. Because you put down ALL black women with that stupid *** question and all those heffas that say that we are jealous are smoking the "black pipe". We are not jealous but you have to understand that how can we uplift our race when our men are tripping over themselves when they get a little success in life the find a "white trophy wife?" When it comes to love I smile when I see any interracial couples because they saw past color. My sister married a white and native American man and they love each other with a passion I envy. When I see a interracial couple who is looking to see who is looking at them then I know that person is not in love but just chasing a dream. The reason white woman want our men is because white men are not really that aggressive and black men want white women because generally they are submissive. Black women are the ideal poster for strength, beauty, intelligence and grace. How many white woman do you know that have overcome struggle and still keep going? My idol Maya Angelou is a great example and she married a white man but like she said "still I rise" Do yourself a favor... if you truly love your wife then your eyes should only be on her and not on others
2007-03-09 16:07:02 · answer #8 · answered by Unique Poet 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
First of all that's only some black women i happen to think interracial relationships and marriages are great. Secondly the only reason some black women act that way is because they are jealous that the white women got a black man that has a job, degree, and benefits.
2007-03-09 15:53:55 · answer #9 · answered by leona 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because there are some people out there who just can't accept things that are diffrent from the normall. And I hate to say it but a bi-racial couple is diffrent from normal. And there are some people who just don't know how to handle it. So instead of being mature about it and realizing that there is more to peoplle than just the color of their skin they are being imature and telling you that they don't know why you are with her and things like that! If you are happy then what they are saying shouldn't bother you to much! Just tell them to mind their own business and stay out of yours! I'm happy for you though that you have found what sounds like an awsome wife to have a great family life with! Congradulations on that one! And good luck with the many years to come! God Bless!
2007-03-09 15:53:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give them time; maybe they'll get the hint. Besides, you're married to a white WOMAN, remember? If the black women you're talking about tried to hit it off with a white man, they'd probably realize that the old saying about white men and dancing is true... Well, most of the time, anyway.
2007-03-09 15:52:23 · answer #11 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋