Ok I'll try to make it short even though it's a long story. My ex-boyfriend dumped me one year ago & we only dated for shotr while. We never had sex cz he knew I'm saving myself for marriage. He would still contact me on msn even though HE ended it. 2 months ago he called me & planned a whole thing, a movie. Two days later he picked me up, we saw the movie, then he drove me home. I asked him why he wanted to see me after all this time, he said "I wanna see u every once in awhile". I felt like the date was rushed so when i got home, I went on msn & said bye forever to him, he said sorry but I logged out. I went on msn a week later to apologize & he seemed very happy & fine & said he wasn't mad at all. Then he went on a trip. When he came back, i asked him on msn how it was & he told me. Then 2 weeks ago I said hi to him again & we chatted briefly. He does NOT initate converstaions on msn anymore yet he replied to me when I talked to him twice. Is he ignoring me, did I scare him?
2007-03-09 15:37:40 · 9 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I KNOW it was over a year ago when he dumped me. But what I mean is that since he doesn't even say hit on msn does that mean that he has NO feelings at all for me, not even friendly ones, & does it mean that he hates me?, will he ever wanna see me again??
2007-03-09 15:38:12 · update #1
I don't think he hates you at all. I think he just wants to keep things at a very casual level. He's a guy, of course he doesn't want to be the one to talk to the ex first. I think you should just forget about him.
2007-03-09 15:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The money isnt for you.That money is for the child.While you might use some of the money to help with rent or other things this money is for the well being of the child.If his girlfriend gets mad now over 259 wait until the kid needs braces and he has to shell out 1500 or more.Or if the child needs any type of medical care and he has to pay for that too.I hope you were smart enough to get the courts to order him to pay for the childs first four years of college too.Of course you can still go back and ask for that if you didnt.A child is not something you make then throw away.His girlfriend might remember that when she gets pregnant and he leaves her like he did you.Remember to back to court every few years to review his ability to pay as he gets raises.He can be required to pay as much as 25% of his income for the child depending on what state you live in.If his girl is mad now wait until a judge orders more money five years from now. My son finally turned 18 two years ago and decided to join the Army.His last year of HS I was paying 785 a month in support.His mother and I split when he was six and at that time I was paying 300 a month.But because of raises and promotions my income tripled over the years.On top of the child support I bought him anything he wanted.I never had a problem with giving my ex the money because I knew it was going to be used for our son.The girlfriends I had in the years between then and now didnt know how much I was paying every month and I wasnt hurting for money because of it so it was a non issue. Tell your ex that his girlfriend is the one with a serious problem.If he wants to spend time with the child take the child to a neutral place and have him leave the girlfriend at home.
2016-03-28 22:19:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think so. from the brief explanation u gave, i can't find a reason for him to be mad at u. unless, there's some certain statement u made in that 'goodbye' chat u had after the date that nite. men are sometimes sensitive, but they're forgiving.
i don't think u scared him; but i seem to have the answer for him not initiating the conversation. when men leave u, they have no problems in being friends with u. the way u said u initiated the chat and all means that u at least still have some feelings for him. he may not want this to happen, hence he don't want to initiate stuff and put hopes on u. if he initiated stuff, u might come to think that he's still in love with u, whereas he may not be.
going out occasionally, hanging out once awhile, doesn't always means a date. i suggest u try to hold urself from initiating any thing, and just wait for him to start. by then, u'll understand the true meaning of peace of mind :).
2007-03-09 15:51:33 · answer #3 · answered by ally_melody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that he hates you, but remember, YOU told him goodbye forever. How is he supposed to react to that? Is it really a surprise that he doesn't start conversations with you when you said that to him? I think it would probably be best to ask him about it, that's the only way you're going to know for sure. You're not going to get anything figured out without talking.
2007-03-09 15:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by MrMarblesTI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some way, it seems like he loved you enough to keep an eye on you... I cant understand it all but.
It sounds like you broke his heart and its kinda if you do love him... going to be the hardest thing to mend, he went on a trip... thats never a good sign.
He might have closed it all of from then, but I could be wrong
2007-03-09 15:43:18 · answer #5 · answered by 5789854322379 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like I told you last time, he is playing on your feelings. He only wants to see you "once in a while" is because he wants to keep you on hand, just in case it doesn't work out with other girls.
2007-03-09 15:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he can't take a hint from 'goodbye forever' uhm wow
u scared him and haven't gotten over him
so uh yah good luck with this
2007-03-09 15:48:03 · answer #7 · answered by random bailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here goes the " everyone once in a while " question again.-SIGH
2007-03-09 15:41:28 · answer #8 · answered by lady26 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is over you, but you are not over him. Time to move on...
2007-03-09 15:42:24 · answer #9 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋