So me and this guy had been going out for 2 years. He tried to get me to break up with him while saying it was for me because he promised me he wouldn't and according to him he never tells lies. Eventually he did do it and he did it over the internet and wouldn't even do it on the phone or talk to me on the phone. it's been exactly a month now. i keep asking him to admit that he just doesn't like me anymore but he won't do it and it's driving me insane. i don't understand if he does like me or doesn't and he just wont tell me. i rather him just tell me he doesn't like me and be done with it but he wont. Does anyone have any idea what could be going on with him? i know no one knows him personally or anything but still.
2007-03-09 15:35:21 · 9 answers · asked by brokenhearted 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let it go, don't look for answers because it won't change the fact that he doesn't want to be with you. Leave with dignity instead of looking like a fool. He's going to tell you whatever he wants to at that precise moment, you have to remember that guys are not always good with the "emotions" thing like women are. You might think it will make you feel better or "free" if you get an answer, but it won't. It will only lead to wanting more answers or to really feeling "beaten up" more than you already do. Do you have any idea how many men there are out there? Trust me, you will find a man one day that will be just right for you! Kick this one to the curb and stop wasting your precious time! There's too much life to live! Good Luck!
2007-03-17 14:06:40 · answer #1 · answered by squirrely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn how to read the signs so you don't waste your own precious time on someone who's just not that into you! Look, either you're together or you're not. When you have to start to twist things upside down and inside out, it's over! See that and move on! The thrill is gone and enough is enough, for whatever reason. The reason doesn't even matter! Please look at the REALITY of your situation. When you need to plead to get the other's attention, he's telling you without words, that it's over! Please forget about him. It's not gelling for him and neither should it still be for you anymore! You know the saying, "If you let something go, and it comes back to you, then it's yours! But if you let it go and it never returns, then it wasn't yours in the first place!" Reality is tough to face sometimes. We have to all be secure and sure within ourselves to be able to completely devote ourselves to another. It sounds like your guy hasn't found himself yet. Don't fight it! You risk losing yourself, and that's going too far! I'm telling you, when it's right, and you're meant for someone, they will always meet you half way. No bending over backwards, which sounds like what you're doing! Truly, there are other fish in the sea, and give yourself the chance, to discover an even better one! When it's right, it'll be right in every way! Spoken by a savvy happily married woman who quit kidding herself a long time ago, and stopped following the fools that only mess with the mind! They're not worth it! And you'll miss the opportunity to find someone better by pining and sighing after someone who doesn't want to tango your way! Move on, face the facts, you deserve much better, so don't kid yourself girlfriend! Good luck!
2007-03-09 15:53:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Peoples feeling change to get and understanding of that, yyou have to God or something. You ahev to accept it as it just is. To look for an understanding for it is just going to cause you more hurt and and pain. trust me it seems like you would hurt for ever but you will be okay. And sometime from now you are going to think about it and say"why did I sweat the small stuff? ....later
2007-03-17 09:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by lasman37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 19:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why let yourself get hurt anymore ? Will it really make you feel better if he tells you he doesn't like you anymore ? Just move on, I bet hes not brokenhearted over this, so why should you be ?
2007-03-17 14:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by That Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously he doesnt like you anymore or he wouldnt have broke up with you.....regardless of how he did it, he did it and you need to move on now
2007-03-09 15:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by Rºññèè 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a real jerk to me- get over it- move on he isn't worth it !!.
2007-03-17 15:41:23 · answer #7 · answered by rapger54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, i guess other girls DO have it harder than me! i got dumped last week by him texting it....guys are idiots
2007-03-09 15:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by forget_me_not 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you're broken up? if so, let it go.
2007-03-09 15:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by obvious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋