well likea week after me and my b/f broke up , she started going out with him and and didnt tell me. i found out by her bff. i didnt believe her so i asked my bffl and she said yeah. i found out and confronted her about it and she said shes sorry! dont cha think she should of asked me first cause i was so heartbroken!! anyways the other day me and him were talking on the phone (we are good friends ) and she asked me what we talked about. i told her 1/2 the stuff we talked about and asked" why do you think i talked bad about you or something cause i didnt" and she started getting all mad and wrote me a note saying i dont wanna be your friend no more and i didnt say anything. but we used to be really good friend. and she has done that to me 3 times!! im not exagerating either.
2007-03-09 15:09:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she was my friend i really wouldn't want to be her friend again because she seems like a boyfriend stealer. And if you were talking to her boyfriend and you told her the stuff you told him she should believe you and trust you if you guys were really good friends. She should trust you. And its mean of her not to tell you that she was dating your boyfriend that you just broke up with. I would try and find another friend because if she did it 3 times already she might now stop doing it.
2007-03-09 15:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by Becky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well personaly i dont think she is a real friend. I just think she is trying to get people to be on her side so they dont think she is a sl** for stealing your bf. But if you want to try and work the friendship out, try to talk to her about it, or mabye arrange a time where all 3 of you guys can sit down and talk. If you guys have been really good friends i dont think you would want to lose that so i would try to talk to her aboout it if i was you. Well i hope i helped and good luck.
2007-03-09 23:14:59 · answer #2 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not exaggerating well then she is not a real friend, I don't even know what she is. A friend would not go out with your ex without telling you. Anyway be happy your pain and suffering is over because she said you two aren't friends so throw a party and find a new friend.
2007-03-09 23:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by Blueberry. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is low enough to go behind your back, and take your boyfriend after just two weeks of breaking up, you shouldn't have to waist your time on her. Don't waist your time, talking to her, especially if she has done this to you two other times. You can always find another best friend. I, myself would not be able to trust her anymore. Just go on without her, and your old man. You will find someone better than those two. Good Luck!!
2007-03-09 23:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly no she is not your friend. because if she were she wouldm't have talked to someone you broke up with in such a short time and real friends don't date best friends ex's. Plus the fact that she wanted to know what you were talking to him about and she got angry because u talked to him was a sign of jealousy and she should not be trusted so honor her note and leave her alone you'd be better off without her.......been there and had that done...
2007-03-09 23:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by cuRiOuS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course shes not a real friend, but -- thats what girls do, go after eachothers boyfriends.
I'm sorry, it's the truth :(
Be careful who you trust, because you never know what crazy thing someone will do. Tell her how mad you are. If she doesn't want to resolve it, then tell her you two can't be friends anymore.
2007-03-09 23:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by ohimrachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? Really! Because as you get older you will learn that what may not have worked for you may really turn out to work perfectly for someone else. You should just be glad that he isn't your man anymore and just move on with your life.
2007-03-09 23:14:27 · answer #7 · answered by funkmasterblack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure how to answer that. but real friends don't break up becoz of a boy. coz if u look at it closely, you guys wer friends even before the boy came in the picture. you guys wer each other's shoulders before that boy came. so you guys shudnt let him ruin ur friendship.
but seeing how it is already over, i guess u jst hv to move on and pray that she gets wat she deserves and hope she'd be happy.
2007-03-09 23:15:44 · answer #8 · answered by hilary_aaron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say she is not a real friend, i just dont think that is the type of friend you should have, think of it in a positive light atleast you know now who your real friends are, and just move away from there and move on and dont think about them ,youve got your life ahead of you and both of them dont and must not have the space in your mind,they are not worth it
2007-03-09 23:15:40 · answer #9 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw me once, shame on you/Screw me twice shame on me. I think what you need is some serious self evaluation therapy. Are you that desperate for "A FRIEND" that you allow humiliation. I mean, Is she really ALL THAT? I would say as far as ME, MYSELF, and I was concerned, I think NOT!!!!!
2007-03-09 23:17:28 · answer #10 · answered by VidaLoca411 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋