Honestly, everyone I know who has been in a relationship has been either cheated on, or done the cheating! I don't get it, is being in a monogomous (spelling?) relationship really that difficult?
2007-03-09 15:04:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is statement about "everyone you know", or in other words your friends, rather than a statement about the world.
Try getting to know a different crowd.
2007-03-09 15:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I watch and hear and listen to all the stories of those being cheated on or those doing the cheating, and it amazes me. Why do they want to be in any relationship then? The cheap thrill of playing this game behind someone else's back? Small things amuse small minds, is all I can say! If a person doesn't have the personal integrity and honesty if in a relationship, to totally devote themselves to that one special individual, then what's the point of it all? Then don't be in a realtionship! Stay solo and be done with it! Why go around spreading grief and sadness, if all you want to do is party and serve yourself? Well, I truly do think, that those who purposely take advantage of others, and just use a partner as back-up, or a safety net, will one day meet their match, and will have the dis-pleasure of this act being practised on them! What goes around, comes around! They'll get theirs! It's called KARMA! I mean, either you do or you don't. Pretending is not an option! That's in the liar and dishonesty category. Anyone of either sex, should never play these cheating love games ever! It all comes out in the wash, they say! But then again, there are those who do feel inferior, and not deserving of love, so perhaps, this "cheating" act, gives them some fulfillment in a weird way. The illusion that their lives are fully under their control. This fake sense of being above it all! There is a definite reason for such disloyal, double-crossing behavior in the first place. It is clearly evidence of an underdeveloped soul seriously lacking in personal fulfillment because our actions to others, indicate our deepest feelings about ourselves. Those not true to others, are neither true to themselves! They need to take a long, hard look into their mirrors and come to terms with who they really are, instead of messing up the lives of others along the way! It all begins at home, meaning our own home, our personality including the heart and soul. Well-adjusted, happy people, who understand and accept themselves, do not treat others with disrespect or dishonesty! If you cannot make the fit, then don't commit! The worst are those who are married, who do not give their present partner, the decency of waiting until after the divorce, to move on. I feel the greatest sorrow for those having to endure such treatment. I know life is not perfect, but come on, if love has fizzled, it is far more damaging to live the lie, when the truth must come out in the end anyway. Facing it now or later should not be a question to be shoved in the drawer. I see no situation where there can ever be a legitamate excuse to carry on with one, when involved with another. None, never, nyet! Yes, it's happened to me, once, and never again! You learn how to read the signs! The situation has never repeated itself for me! You just have to be honest with yourself as well. Don't cover up for the other one, it's not worth it! If it's going, let it go! You're wasting your time with a loser anyway! Who needs someone who lies and hides? Not me!!!
2007-03-09 23:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not for me if I'm with someone and it got to a point where I felt like it wasn't working out I would rather break up than cheat even if I had alot of history with that person. I wonder the same thing about how people can cheat in a relationship.
2007-03-09 23:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby & I have been together for 13 years this month & neither one of us has cheated. He was approached by women when he worked as a security guard at a club but he told them sorry I'm in a relationship. I have never been able to understand why people cheat, if you want to be with someone else have the guts to tell the first person & then leave.
2007-03-10 08:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by paulinew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think so, I think you have to decide for your self we have all been at that cross road some time in life. Think it over. Doing the right thing is always easier than paying for a bad one.
2007-03-09 23:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by lak3rat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being faithful is not hard. No one wants to even try to be faithful anymore. Its like its all anyone does anymore is cheat. Its real sad isn't it. I don't believe in being unfaithful. No one deserves that.
2007-03-09 23:10:03 · answer #6 · answered by jessnclh 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not when you are fat, balding, and middle aged like me. I find it fairly easy to be faithful since there arn't any women out that interested in me.
2007-03-09 23:13:26 · answer #7 · answered by alanpvr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it can be.Temptation can be very strong.
2007-03-09 23:11:40 · answer #8 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋