I was with this guy for 4 years and I feel like he's the one for me , I can't even imagine being with anyone else. I cheated on him a year into the relationship, and he found out a year later. We decided to work things out. So fastforward to last year, he broke up with me suddenly and i went a little crazy and slept with an ex. He wound up taking me back, only to break it off a few days later because i had slept with my ex. We have stopped talking several times, only for him to call me wanting to see me desperately, but only wanting to be my "friend." He has said that he still loves me, but can't give me what I want. I am having the worst time moving on, because i know that there's something there. Help me!
2007-03-09 14:37:04 · 6 answers · asked by mbleh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Gosh that sounds so complicated!! But in reality if something really were there then you wouldn't have cheated or have to urge to sleep with any other man when you two break up. To be honest, you're just fooling yourself about him being the one. I think it's time for you to let go for good, for your sake and for his!
2007-03-09 14:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time, have faith and hang on to hope. It seems like he is just scared or unsure of what he wants. But it does sound like he still loves you, and maybe he's just taking a little extra time to figure out what exactly to do. If you go to him and request a sit down n talk conversation, I think you two would be able to discuss things in a mature manner and deal with it.
2007-03-10 00:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by YinxSphinxmen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible that something is still there but you both have shattered the trust mechanism in the relationship so neither one of you are willing to committ to each other again. from what i read in your story you most of all need to make wiser decisions in your life. you see the consequences right! sleeping with someone else to replace the hurt your feeling from another is no a way to solve your problems. as you get older and wiser you will realize your special and cut down on the extra drama.
2007-03-09 22:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infedelity is not the problem, its just a symptom of an unhealthy relationship. Move on. It'll hurt but you'll get better. It might take a year or more but atleast you'll have the chance to find someone who you can trust and will trust you...
2007-03-09 22:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much drama... You can forgive but never forget and that will always linger in the back of his head. Start a clean slate with someone new.
2007-03-09 22:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by Alexis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys need to sit down and talk to each other, there is no point in a relationship if you don't have trust
2007-03-09 22:41:21 · answer #6 · answered by Tezza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋