Okay I like this guy and i know he likes me but he wont do anything about it (well not yet anyways). well his friend is a really good friend of mine and him and i talk for hours at a time. well a rumor started around that i liked him. well the guy i like heard this and got a lil ticked. he wanted me to like him which i still do! i dont like his friend. i want him to know but the thing is is that i just cant tell him straight up because its way to weird for the both of us and he will get freaked out cause thats the kind of person he is. so how do i hint to him or tell him??? please help me!!!!
2007-03-09 14:35:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Walk up to him and kiss him. That will give him the right idea.
2007-03-09 14:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that this other friend is nothing else but a friend and that you still have your eyes on the person that you wanted before all these rumours went around. In this situation the best thing to do would be honest about how you feel, so what he's going to freak out i mean why would he freak out if he already knew you liked him.
2007-03-09 22:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the only way..and if you guys continue playing this game of I like him and he likes me but we won't say anything about it...well then what's the point.
Why even bother liking the guy..if you guys don't even talk..and the fact that you guys feel weird about all of this gives me a clue that you guys are still young and new to relationships. I mean don't get me wrong..we start somewhere..but just know that a keyword to relationships is communication. Just tell it how it is...just straight up tell him that you don't like the other guy..and that you like him.
2007-03-09 22:44:55 · answer #3 · answered by Sydney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could never go wrong by asking him on a date. It doesn't have to be like "hey, lets go on a date", just be like "hey do you want to go grab a bite to eat and go see a movie this weekend?" If he says yes, that's when you get your flirt on. Show him you are not afraid to be who you are and what you're about! At school, try to talk to him more. Sit with him at lunch and find out what he likes to do. Maybe the next date you can go do something he likes. Also do things that will make his eyes pop out of his head! Try new hair styles and dress hot! Well i hope you get your boy! Good Luck!
2007-03-09 22:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by Overweight And Hot! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to be his friend. Slide little flirt hints in every now and then, and unless he is insane, he'll get the picture. Spend more time with him than his friend to prove to him that he is the one you like, not the other way around. That's the best I can sum it up to. Good Luck.
2007-03-09 22:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by mtoutlaw_87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. You need to clarify that you don't like your friend to him. And there is no other way of hinting this than to speak to him directly. It will be weird, but only if you think it will be. Just put everything aside and say it to him that you don't like him.
And then while talking, gradually tell him that you like him instead.
2007-03-09 22:39:46 · answer #6 · answered by A.S.I. - 7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't mature enough to say "I'd really like to spend more time with you", and HE'S not mature enough to hear it, you need to just forget about it! If it's "too weird" for both of you, why would you WANT to say anything? Honey, that makes NO sense whatsoever, unless you are 10.
2007-03-09 22:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by lizrdluvnmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont want to tell him, but want him to know that you dont like the mutual friend... tell him you dont like the mutual friend..
then also while you're at it say the guy i like is hotter, funnier, more fun, whatever you think of him, but also make it a lil personal so that he kinda gets the hint that its him, without you tleling him flat out.
2007-03-09 22:39:08 · answer #8 · answered by brown_eyed_girl_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is make an effort, such as making a letter which shows your predicaments of your feelings and the things you want to say for him. Also, you can attach a piece of your picture..
2007-03-09 22:40:47 · answer #9 · answered by Ice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just set it straight tell the guy's friend that you don't like him and tell the others too then go to this guy that you like and tell him that you hav feelings for him he will understand!
2007-03-09 22:40:16 · answer #10 · answered by LOLA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since his friends are also ur friends,why is so hard pls let the love flow,once had that kind of instant but,i think he is waitin for the rigth time you never know, dont tell him any thing if the feelin is true it will flow from him.
2007-03-09 22:42:52 · answer #11 · answered by noshakes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋