Sometimes, i have sexual thoughts that are graphic, such as stranger sex, 3 somes etc..i find myself thinking about this when i sleep too...also things like starting fires, numerous things that are not right or NORMAL...and then i find myself feeling guilty..I feel like i have "sinned"...Do you think we can sin in our head? Is this a medical thing or a spiritual thing?
2007-03-09 14:33:30 · 6 answers · asked by cutegirlin_tn 5 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Of course. That means you are human.
The sexual thoughts: If we were not attracted to each other, the race would die.
The others: I do not believe we "sin in our head." My tradition tells us there are two basic sins - things we should not have done which we did, and things we should have done which we did not. Merely thinking of something is not in-itself sinful, unless it separates you from others in some manner.
If it gets to the point where you are overwhelmingly tempted to act, write again or seek assistance. As long as these are merely passing thoughts, however intense, let them pass.
2007-03-09 14:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by johnhanscom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um are they abnormal... i dont know. i have extreme sexual thoughts but i don't have them about 3 somes etc. i think what makes you think it is wrong is what you were brought up to believe. i personally think that type of behavior is wrong but people have orgys and they don't feel guilty about it. go figure. you can't "sin" until you actually do the action. if you are religious go talk to your priest etc etc. whatever your denomination is. that might clarify things and make you feel better. is it medical? is it spiritual? i think neither. i just think you have different preferences... whether you act on them or not depends if you have sinned or not. dreams can mean different things. almost all religions revere dreams and believe they mean something. starting fires? could mean many things. it almost sounds as if your Id is making its appearence in your dreams lol. again i don't think its that big of a deal. if you seriously feel bad about this. again go talk to somebody you trust etc. good luck.
2007-03-09 22:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by joethemetaldude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you heard of tourette syndrome i think it is when someone curses out loud randomly and cannot control what they say it happens to me once in a while but only in my head i don't say anything outloud i don't think you have a problem and you should not feel guilty about your thoughts maybe you saw a movie or watched the news on tv and your mind stored images and actions like a dream and thoughts slightly distorted resurface in your mind don't worry you are a good person
2007-03-11 04:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by 57rider 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a curiosity thing. I think you will outgrow this and I don't think you will act on any of those thoughts so don't worry about it..........sometimes we let our thoughts go in strange directions so we just have to rein them back in to normal.
2007-03-09 22:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by Vergie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are bad and naughty girl, you need a spanking, lol. im kidding, hey they are only thoughts, just dont act on them, ok?
2007-03-09 22:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by who me? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just beat the crap out of yourself and die
2007-03-09 22:40:55 · answer #6 · answered by starfringg 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋