i need help ladies mostly cuz i need ur point of view but guys too?

Question

my ex-girlfriend and i have agreed to b like really good friends if not like best oppisite gender friends. (im in 8th grade incase u were wondering) i still love her a lot and i have a need to be with her all the time...and i really want to go out again (we broke up becuause or first date was a disaster ruined by my friends stupid behavior and my lack of experience)....i feel like i need to tell her how much i love her...should i tell her how much i love her? do u think she'd gimmie another chance??

Answer 1

well first, i wouldnt say "love". sometimes love at that age can be taken the wrong way. im in 9th grade haha trust me that happened to a few people last year. just tell her how you feel and ask her for another chance. dont beg. just be sweet and ask :)

Answer 2

I think you should go somewhere such as dinner or rollerskating or whatever the two of you like do and enjoy and just the two of you(as friends) and dont tell your immature friends about it, but have a good time and see where things go and if she hasnt made any reference to the two of you then at the end of the night tell her that you really enjoyed spending time with her and how you feel and that you are sorry for the disaster of a 1st date and if she feels the same and sees your trying she will give u another chance if not then be friends yet move on your young and there are more girls out there and who knows maybe when your older things will work out.

Answer 3

WIthout knowing her, you or the situation, it'd be hard for me to tell you if she'd take you back.

I remember when I was in 8th grade. I was in love myself...head over heals in love. Those were great days!

If you feel the need to tell her how much you love her, then tell her you love her. If you're too scared or nervous to do it face to face, do it over the phone or do it in a letter. Not an e-mail..a real letter..with ink, paper and your own handwriting.

And here's a little tip I want you to remember about women, my young friend. You can NEVER, EVER tell a woman "I love you" too many times. You can show it by your actions. and that's wonderful, but there;s something about hearing the words that makes all the difference in the world. Doesn't matter how young or old she is. Women LOVE to hear that they're loved.

In this case, tell her what you've told us here on Yahoo. That your life has been a wreck since you broke up after your first date. Tell her that it was something you never wanted to happen. Tell her that you want to work with you to make you relationship work and that she is one of the reasons you wake up in the morning and the reason you go to sleep at night--so you can dream of her. Ask her to give you another chance..that you promise to do everything you can to make it work. And then keep that promise.

Good luck.

Answer 4

I think you should back off and be nice to her but not follow her around a lot and try to be around her all the time. She will want to be with you more if she doesn't think you are desperate for her. Just be nice but I think trying to be her friend is silly since you have feelings for her and won't be satisfied with being "just friends".

Give this whole thing a couple of weeks to cool down and then go over to her and talk to her. Tell her you're sorry things didn't work out the first time around and you want to give things another shot. The worst thing she could say is no so you really don't have much to lose.

Good luck!

Answer 5

Do you think she give me another chance? -Yeah why not. tell her what you told us, You had lack of experience, not something to tell your friends, but she will respect your honesty. Also bringing a friend on a date isn't the best idea. Just tell her you love her in a really nice way don't sound desperate just be real.

Answer 6

No...because it's "the thrill of the chase" kind of along the same lines as "nice guys finish last"....She wants someone she can't have, you need to play it cool. If she wants you she'll come around. But just for the record, I can say I dated a guy once who was younger then me....a bunch of us went to a restaurant and him and his friend acted like 5 year olds....nothing after that could make me attracted to him again..it was pathetic. You didn't say what happened, but it could be too late.

Answer 7

first thing you should never brake up on the first date and second you need to tell her that you still have feelings for her and if she feels the same way then go out and this time with out your friends around go to the movies or out with just the two of you instead of your friends. best of luck

Answer 8

First don't tell her you love her big mistake because she will take advantage of you .And if you don't want anyone to no you just told her you love her then I wouldn't because as soon as she gets home she will be texting or emailing or phoning her girl friends to tell them everything you said to her .We all do it so be careful with what you say if you don't want the whole school knowing your business.You sound like my son and I gave him the same advise I'm giving you now .

Answer 9

Well if you broke up with her and she still likes you then yea go for it!! and if she really likes you or even loves you she wouldnt have dumped you (if she did) just because of your friend(s)!!! That would be really sweet for you to tell her how you feel about her!! i know i would like for a guy to tell me how he feels about me and it come from him and not his friend or someone else!!! Go for it and Good Luck!!!

Answer 10

Are you serious honey? Are you really in the 8th grade? my dear sweet boy, when you get a little older (like 21) Do I have a girl for you!! Not to worry though, I have a funny feeling you will be fighting the girls off with both hands, in no time!