This guy I have been friends with, stopped being my friend about 9 months ago. He knew I liked him, but i finnally told him that I did. I've been trying to get him to talk to me, but he only talks to me on email, which sometimes he ignores. I'm completely heartbroken, and have tried to move on. Its NOT WORKING!! I've apologized...and tried everything. I dont even know why he started hating me. He liked me back and I knew that too. But now he talks to this other girl,and is sort of "popular" and he always puts my friends down. I hate that and I confront him about it but he denys it. How can I get him to a) Shut the Hell up and B) Talk to me in public or private in person again?
2007-03-09 14:27:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just forget the jerk. It will take time but you will find someone that is really real.
2007-03-09 14:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first thing is to stop liking this guy.. he's a j*ask*ss if he thinks the "popular" girls make better girlfriends. He doesn't seem to want anything to do with you. My suggestion is to just ignore him. He's being stupid, and the one thing no girl needs in her life is a stupid man. There is a chance that he probably doesn't like you for some reason.
My boyfriend has totally put girls down before. He told me about a girl he didn't like who wouldn't stop hitting on her and one day he told her quit calling him, and he never answered any of her calls.
I know my boyfriend doesn't have anything to do with you, but his little story does. It may be that this guy doesn't like you. I asked my boyfriend why he was mean to her and he said, "She was a skank, and she looked like she never bathed in her life because she smelled bad, and she was just disgusting, the way she talked, everything."
It could be that maybe you're doing something or behaving in a way that he doesn't like and wants you GONE.
A few things to do is to simply drop him. You can't change the way people feel, it is better just to let them do that they will. Forget about him, i know it's VERY hard, and will take some time a lots of effort to stop looking at him, but it will be good for you not to think about him so much, especially if he's being mean to you - you don't need that.
Live long and Prosper
2007-03-09 22:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Cute T ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many times in life we fall for men that are not good for us. Why do you want this man when he treats not only you, but your friends terrible? Women today need to respect, honor and love themselves. You are too cool, valuable and smart to be chasing this fool around begging for his attention. Now once you completely stop (really stop, no email, etc) you will find it easier to move on. But the way you are going you are making him think he is the "man", when he is just a boy going by his actions.
2007-03-09 22:37:29 · answer #3 · answered by Family matters 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cliques is such an evil thing. I would just tell him in email that you like him but if he dosn't like you tell him that you want to still be friends. And just not over the internet. You shouldn't have to apolgize for telling a guy about you true feelings. Tell him that you wish that you would have never told him so that you and him would still be friends. And see what he has to say. Good luck and best wishes.
2007-03-09 22:35:31 · answer #4 · answered by volleyballis4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 words: Get Over Him! It's not worth it. If he knows that you like him and he's treating you that way then he doesn't deserve any of your time. Give him less attention (but remain friendly to him) & find another guy...he might come around then if he sees that you're trying to move on.
2007-03-09 22:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by ~BuBbLy~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him. That is trying to control him. Find another guy friend to talk to. He's obviously moved on and now you need to too.
2007-03-09 22:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, this guy is not worth your trouble. He need to be forgotten for your sake. Sounds like what he is doing is not your fault, but his own. You really need to move on and just forget him. Looks to me like you are too good for him if he is acting that way.
2007-03-09 22:34:28 · answer #7 · answered by smittybo20 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to talk to someone who makes you feel like this. I wouldn't waste anymore time on him as it sounds like he really doesn't care about you anyway. Let him play these games with someone else and walk away with your dignity in tact.
2007-03-09 22:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a) make a scene in public. b) move on. he ignores u cause u keep trying to talk to him. leave him alone, and he'll feel guilty
2007-03-09 22:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him he's sounds like a loser and i know you can do so much better. i'm sure there are plenty of guys out there who would love to be with you so go find one
2007-03-09 22:34:21 · answer #10 · answered by Juliaysha247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋