Ok I'll try to make it short even though it's a long story. My ex-boyfriend dumped me one year ago & we only dated for shotr while. We never had sex cz he knew I'm saving myself for marriage. He would still contact me on msn even though HE ended it. 2 months ago he called me & planned a whole thing, a movie. Two days later he picked me up, we saw the movie, then he drove me home. I asked him why he wanted to see me after all this time, he said "I wanna see u every once in awhile". I felt like the date was rushed so when i got home, I went on msn & said bye forever to him, he said sorry but I logged out. I went on msn a week later to apologize & he seemed very happy & fine & said he wasn't mad at all. Then he went on a trip. When he came back, i asked him on msn how it was. Then 2 weeks ago I said hi to him again. He hasn't said hi to me on msn since out li' meetup.Is he ignoring me & did I scare him off? What's going through his mind now? He's 26 while I'm 21.
2007-03-09 14:18:07 · 4 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I KNOW it was over a year ago when he dumped me. But what I mean is that since he doesn't even say hit on msn does that mean that he has NO feelings at all for me, not even friendly ones, & does it mean that he hates me?, will he ever wanna see me again??
2007-03-09 14:18:39 · update #1
it means that he doesn't want to be alone, and he knows that you will be there when he wants you to. He is stringing you along...move on and never talk to him again!
2007-03-09 14:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by daisy31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one here is going to be able to tell you what is going on in your ex-boyfriend's mind. Only he knows.
That said, why do you even care? It is obvious he has long since moved on and has just been using you since he dumped you. It is way past time for you to move on yourself. Forget the loser. He had his chance, and he blew it. You two broke up for a reason, and don't forget it! So long as you keep prolonging the inevitable you are never going to get over this guy and find someone who truly loves and respects you.
If I were you, I would stop even trying to talk to this guy. In order to get over him, you need to cut off contact. Go hang out with your friends. Get involved with the community or join a club. Take up a hobby. Be yourself. Have some fun!! Then, when you feel you are ready, start going out with other people. If you get involved with a lot of activities that interest you, you'll meet someone similar to you really quickly. If not, then you have the privilege and luck of getting to enjoy being single. You are young and wonderful. Lucky you! Don't waste it on a guy who isn't worth it.
If you keep worrying about this guy who doesn't even love you and likely never will, you'll never find out what else is out there waiting for you. Get out there and have some fun and stop waiting around here!
Good luck!
2007-03-09 14:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just got back in touch with you to see if you would change your mind about sex and hook up with him. Don't torture yourself. If you say goodbye to him forever, mean it. You will waste your time and make things worse for you if you keep trying to talk to him on msn. Block him, Erase anything you have of his online, emails, IMS, etc. It's better to just end this and move on. You will end up regretting the time you wasted on this jackass, trust me.
2007-03-09 14:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You fool, he just wants back in you pants. Remind him of what he lost when he dumped you . I wouldn't ever talk to him again.
2007-03-09 14:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by tattoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋