My boyfriend came home at 2 o'clock in the morning yesterday and started a fight with me right when he walked in the door. He told me to get out of his house and leave his keys. I asked him where he was and he told me that he had been hanging out with one of his buddies and a girl that he has known for a while from work. He said he is just friends with her and thinks she is a "cool person". I am worried because she just broke up with her boyfriend. He said that he did that because I was out unitl 2 in the morning the day before. I know that he would never approve of me having a guy friend, so why is it okay for him to have a "girl" friends? Is this "girl" friend someone I should be worried about?
2007-03-09 14:01:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just explain to him that it needs to be a two way street. If he's allowed to have friends who are girls, especially ones he hangs out with until 2 am, then you should be allowed to have guy friends. Honestly, it sounds like you're in a somewhat abusive relationship. Not all abuse leaves a scar or black eye, but if he's controlling enough to the point where you know that he wouldn't want you to have a guy friend but he's allowed to have a girl friend and hang out with her all night, it might be time to look for a new boyfriend. Don't stay in an abusive relationship, it's one of the worst things in the world.
2007-03-09 14:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by MrMarblesTI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to what he told you..he wants to end it with you, and whatever his reasons are, you are better off without him. He stayed out until 2 in the morning because you did it the night before? did he talk to you and let you know that it bothered him? does he think that you are a 2 year old that needs to be taught your lesson becuz you did that? he sounds like he has some stuff going on and he is just trying to find a way to end the relationship.
If he is hanging out with a woman until 2a.m. and he comes home and tells you to leave, yes you should be worried...worried that he has been sleeping with her and put your health at risk. Leave this guy, you deserve better!
2007-03-09 22:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by daisy31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if I were you, I'd get a boyfriend that didn't punish me for having friends. And yes, you should worry about your boyfriend's girl co-workers because that's who he spends all day hanging out with fantasizing about having sex with. Your boyfriend sounds like the kind of guy who absolutely will pursue sex with a co-worker.
2007-03-09 22:05:48 · answer #3 · answered by matt123169 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure if he's cheating. but it definately sounds like somethings up. if he's getting defensive and blaming you, then maybe he has feelings for her. it'll be hard to get him to admit to anything though. all you can do is watch his behavior from now on and if he keeps this up, you have to do what's best for you. in a relationship, our instincts tell us so much. listen to them. just b/c you don't catch them in the act doesn't mean something isn't going on.
2007-03-09 22:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by RedDevyl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-03-09 22:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by Lois M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's a possibility by the fact that he kicked you out. n
2007-03-09 22:07:14 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess it doesnt matter who you hang out with now, he told you to get out of his house...I would just move on...
2007-03-10 02:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is sticking her.
Why else would he kick you out?
2007-03-09 22:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he can have "girl" friends but u can't have "boy" friends then i would question it a little
2007-03-09 22:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by chica™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-03-09 22:04:11 · answer #10 · answered by fen 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋