I really like my boyfriend. He always wants me to come over to his house instead of him comming to mine. I sometimes want him to come over instead of me having to go to his house. We had plans tonight for us to have our time. I asked him to come over and he said he can't because he wants to play XBox Live with his uncle. Is this fair?
2007-03-09 13:51:54 · 22 answers · asked by unknown 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-03-09 18:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know, there are many many other men in the world. You might try getting to know some of them. Why stick with one who doesn't seem to be giving you the treatment you wish?
He may want to play XBox with this uncle; why not? But the rest of the story seems to show that you are not happy.
Get a man who will make you happy. At least be a steady companion five days out of seven.
Read up on dating and relationships. There's a whole world out there, and you're missing out on some of the best years of your life.
2007-03-09 21:56:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not fair, but soon as you mature you will see life is not fair. Would you rather be right or would you rather be happy. Let him have his xbox fun and you can go take a nice bubble bath and take a good book with and some icecream.
2007-03-09 21:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by lifecoach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what to do, and so do you.
Wow, XBox live, huh? When given the choice of you two having your "time" and playing XBox the choice is simple for him, eh?
This is your boyfriend? You need to get a life and MAKE SURE you shut creeps like him OUT of it.
2007-03-09 21:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your BF would rather play XBox with his Uncle than go over to your house and be with you???? Ummmm, girl........doesn't that tell you something????? Perhaps it's time to find a BF that will treat you with more sensitivity and respect!
2007-03-09 21:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well why not find a new hang out? Maybe he's not allowed to leave the house. He should at least try to go to your house. Find something that y'all both like to do that y'all can do at your house.
2007-03-09 21:57:48 · answer #6 · answered by Robby M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that u would like him to come over some times because u go to his house alot and he should understand
2007-03-09 21:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its fair,let him do his guy thing with his uncle.its healthy for you both to have relations with others outside of your own relationship.Spend time with a girlfriend or a family member or chill by yourself for a while.
2007-03-09 21:56:20 · answer #8 · answered by FYIIM1KO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well any guy who would rather spend time playing xbox than being with his a girlfriend is retard, i know i would much rather spend time with my girlfriend than play mind numbing games, but what do i know?
2007-03-11 21:10:08 · answer #9 · answered by prince14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and no. he should go to your house way more often but he is probably scared of screwing up in front of your parents. he needs to make the commitment though to you. althoug he might need to spend time with his fam. but i wouldn't be sure playing xbox is the best way to do that! well good luck. talk to him bout it.
2007-03-09 21:56:41 · answer #10 · answered by Hilary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fair ? Not even close. You have to realize in his own environment he can excercise the control that you are allowing him to maintain.
2007-03-09 21:58:23 · answer #11 · answered by Tommy Lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋