There was somenthing in life that you always wanted, since a little Kid. Now you have the chance, and you made a promise to someone that you will do it with that person. The time has come, and now you don't want that thing..
I Don't want to break my promise, i never do that ( to me a promise is a promise), but there is something deep in my heart that says: Just don't do it. I reallky don't want to do it, but I don't know how to break my promise also. What would you guys do ?. This person counts with my help ...
2007-03-09 13:48:19 · 8 answers · asked by NA 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is better to break a promise to someone else than to betray yourself and go against your better judgment. Trust yourself and your instinct.
2007-03-09 13:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by Lois M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it was a childhood dream and you dont really feel comfortable doing it. If this person really is your friend then they wont think of this as breaking a promise and they will understand you.
2007-03-09 21:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by Katie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you didn't want to give us the real story. It sounds like you are a virgin and you promised a chidlhood friend that the two of you would have sex with each other. Well take it from me, don't do anytihng you don't want to. Promise or no promise!
2007-03-09 21:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you talking about?
Read your question, you've gone completely around what it is that's bothering you.
That's probably what your doing in your situation.
The answer you seek is probably inside you.
It happens to me all the time. My dads my best friend, and sometimes when I have a problem, and we talk, well I talk and he listens. He tells me after I've finished, that I've already answered my questions.
I guess it helps to just rationalize the situation with someone you trust.
Try it.
2007-03-09 21:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by weazle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do something else special for/with this person. Take care of yourself. Explain to them or maybe write a note with a gift. If it is a real friend they will understand that you must follow your intuition/gut/heart on this. You can't take care of or help others if you don't take care of yourself first.
2007-03-09 21:54:29 · answer #5 · answered by RedPower Woman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth.
2007-03-09 21:51:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it! u were a kid they should understand
Best of luck <3alison
2007-03-09 21:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay true to yourself.
2007-03-09 21:52:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋