Ok so like with my other questions my gf who is 15 wants a baby and me I'm about to start college in the fall. Well yesterday she told me she wanted a baby right before we were about to you know and that stopped me from doing it and I tryed talking to her about it. Well today I went to her house to talk to her more about it and tell her that I'm not ready for one but someway somehow we ended up doing it without a condom and after everything was done I damn near crapped myself cuz I realized what just happened. So after it was done she kissed me and said "thanks hun you can go now till tomorrow when we try again" I'm like what the f... How in the world did she break me down that quick cuz I mean I came in there strong and ready to tell her no and then that happened. What should I do? What is her deal?
2007-03-09 13:40:57 · 41 answers · asked by spayhappy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU?????... you should not be having sex with a 15 yr old girl! SHAME ON YOU!!!!!!!! You could not only be a father but you could go to PRISON too and be a registered sex offender for the rest of your life..what good will college do you then? You need to think about what your doing and make some better decisions or your life is going to be ruined.
2007-03-09 13:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious?! You're caving into a girl who wants to have child when she's still a baby herself. God sakes man! Besides being a wanton Lolita she's a minor! Instead of starting college your liable to be starting a jail sentence. You're older than her and risking throwing your entire future into the crapper. You're supposed to be making decisions with the organ on your shoulders, not the one in your pants. You know perfectly well what you should do as well as what her deal is. If you haven't prayed in a while now would be a good time to start. On top of that she treats you like a stud bull. A sperm service donor to be led around by the balls. How utterly demeaning! This deal of hers is to ruin your life and to keep you in a hopeless situation which you will never be able to recover from. You've done all the talking that you need to do. Now you need to snap out of it and stay the hell out of her house. You know what the deal is and the deck is stacked against you. How could a man take such a fall?
2007-03-09 14:13:01 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you completetly mindless?! if she does get pregnant-then you WILL be responsible too. I mean you are about to be a college student but you can't resist a fifteen year old kid for ten seconds to put on a condom. Oh and newsflash - condoms nor birth control are 100% so if you don't want to get her pregnant than DON"T SLEEP with her.
Have you even thought of the big picture- she is fifteen- you are about to go to college- she is afraid to lose you-so having a baby is security to her?! Sit down and talk to her. She is a scared kid!
She is fifteen - she shouldn't even be having sex!
And apparently neither should you - you are the adult , be more responsible! Sorry to be harsh- but this isn't all her fault- she is insecure and young- NO A BABY IS NOT THE ANSWER!!!!! neither one of you are ready- but if you are SO concerned then why haven't you been more responsible concerning proctection and prevention- TALK TO HER! Explain why you don't want to have a baby RIGHT NOW !
2007-03-09 13:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by britlynn18 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
RUN. At 15 and your about 19 or so....the chances of you actually staying together for the rest of your life are pretty slim. In about 5 years you'll feel really different about a lot of stuff then you do right now, and in 10 even more, and 15 even more. Child support is not cheap, and it's pretty hard to work enough to pay it and go to school, and if you don't pay it, you go to jail, or the next job you do get, they will garnish your wages...Babies are cute, and a LOT of work...wait till your closer it 30, you have SOOO much time. Personally, I wouldn't trust sleeping with your girlfriend any more...sorry.
2007-03-09 13:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by 123..WAIT! 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your 15-year-old girlfriend IS a baby, and she is clearly NOT of sound enough mind to be able to consent to sex. Depending upon your age and state, you may be committing the CRIME of statutory RAPE. If you got her pregnant, you just provided ample evidence that YOU are the rapist. Do you like the idea of prison and a lifetime registered as a pedophile?
Refuse to see her. Don't go to her house, and don't let her into yours. That way, your penis won't take control of your brain again. If you do it anyway, especially without a condom, which is just plain STUPID (and you already know that), then you deserve whatever you get. Not many girls are going to want you when they find out you're a daddy with an STD.
Having a stupid and immature girlfriend doesn't make you look very smart, no matter how hot she is. Find a better one.
2007-03-09 13:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by gelfling 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you've got a problem. It's not to late to have a talk with her. Just tell her that you believe the two of you aren't ready for a baby. And if she's not pregnant already, use protection next time. And since girls are very tricky, I suggest you buy your own condoms. You wouldn't another mishap. Better yet, if she doesn't like/respect what you've got to say break it off. She might be to much trouble for her own good.
2007-03-09 13:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by Candie 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
RUN!!!!!!. Seriously think about her parents killin you. Or she just wants a baby to keep you. Think about it your going to college and come on your a guy and there better girls and hot ones out there. My best friend is a guy and he said college is great with girls. Do you want to be a father that younge with a immature 15yr old. Cuz if she was mature she wouldn't want a baby. Hello she wants to tie you down and i say she is psycho. so you need to get out of that. And put a condom on make sure you got it and not her she could poke holes in it. make sure you throw it away too. she could try to get pregnant hell she is 15 she don't know what she wants. And you clearly do so i say don't have sex with her if you don't want to leave her but you really don't want a baby now. Besides its time to go crazy and live
2007-03-09 13:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by everlasting_matchstick 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I guess she just wants a reason to keep you with her, specially since you're going to college.
Besides, fifteen is too young for children, and how can she finish her school with a kid?
The next time you want to talk to her, try going to a more public place, so she doesn't get the chance to break you down.
Ask her if she doesn't want to finish school, or that she wants to be a housewife, only to take care of a child, which is a huge responsibility.
2007-03-09 13:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by cass 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down with her and tell her you two are both too young to be raising children. I don't think she realizes exactly what kind of a responsibility having a child is. If talking fails, then you'll have to give her an ultimatum. Good luck.
2007-03-09 13:47:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
She is lonely. you should encourage her to go out with her friends more... tell her it is not a good idea to have a baby before her twenties...
She would probably want to interact with children it would be good for her to do volunteer work in schools, etc, or to have more contact with children she may have on her family.
If you use a condom, make sure you wash it before throwing it away, she might try it impregnate herself with the material.
but anyway, she will try to impregnate herself by other means, if it be credible that the kid be yours.
if you don't want to marry her, drop her ASAP
2007-03-10 02:46:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋