Well my mest friend really loved him. But i heard that he broke up with her. wht should i do?
2007-03-09 13:25:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'd suggest u do it via E-mail...if its face to face id suggest wearing a hockey mask and/or helmet of some kind...you know how silly some people can be about their ex's, all that emotion and all...but hey, best of luck to ya and it mite be wise to have some one else there as a witness, for the trial~~
2007-03-09 13:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by wild1 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
TRUE STORY: After a year long relationship with the first girl I ever TRULY fell in love with, we broke up. Six weeks later I started dating her best friend on the re-bound. It lasted all of about 3 months before I realized that it was better to be alone than to be with somebody while still being in love with somebody else. So we broke up by my choice. From that point on not only was their friendship destroyed, but she earned herself the reputation as being an untrustworthy back-stabber. Guys and girls alike wondered what kind of a person would stab her best friend in the back by dating her ex boyfriend? Are you like her? Do you want to lose a guy on the roubound AND throw away a friendship???
2007-03-09 21:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's a very common problem, usually just coming out and saying it would be the best thing to do. If you're scared to, use your judgement. If you think that your best friend would freak out at you, it's best not to tell them and just give it a little more time. If you think that they'll understand, then go for it. I mean she's your best friend, she should understand, but just use you common sense, if they broke up less than about 6 months ago, then not such a good idea especially if she liked him alot and he broke up with her, but if it's been more than 6 months or so, then it shouldn't be a problem, and just remember whatever the reaction your best friend gives you, be smart and be there for her because he broke up with her, and she's probably hurt
2007-03-09 21:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by jeannn. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave that alone. You never ever go out with your best friends ex's ever. That is supposed to be some kind of unwritten rule about best friends. Besides why would you want to be with someone that one of your friends already had. You may have feelings for him but you need to let it go because I'm sure your friend would not that too much. Put the shoes on the other foot and think about how you would feel it she went out with one of your ex's.
2007-03-09 21:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no easy way....if you have to go for your best friends man then you must have a problem. There are no excuses to ever date your best friends man, NONE, there are plenty of other men out there find another one. If you are thinking but I love him, that is your fault for letting yourself get feelings for your best friends man. NO EXCUSE, don't tell, forget your feelings and keep your friend, a guy is not worth it, you probably won't even end up with him in the end anyways.
2007-03-09 21:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by JV 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all change your avitar from a guy to a girl. Then get over all this "love" talk, I doubt you even know what love is. Maybe you should just try to have some basic friendship-type relationships before you start talking about being in "love" as it's clear your friend who was in "love" wasn't, and hey, if this guy is such a catch, WHY DID THEY BREAK UP?
2007-03-09 21:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
???? You heard HE broke up with her. What does that have to do with it. You say she is your best friend. I'm glad you're not mine. Where do you draw the line? Why would you start up with him in the first place? I guarantee you two will brake up eventually and you will have lost twice.
Your question, "what should I do?" be prepared for a life of "what goes around comes around" and more bad Karma.
2007-03-09 21:27:52 · answer #7 · answered by areyoukidding 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's your best friend, right? Going for her ex-boyfriend might not be a great idea...especially if he was the one who broke up with her. If he did, it will wound her even further if you start dating her ex. She will feel backstabbed by you... and will possibly hate you... so don't even go there... there are so many guys out there so don't feel he's the only one for you!
On the otherhand, if it was her idea to break up he's free game... :)
2007-03-09 21:34:18 · answer #8 · answered by terraisearth 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a life!
How dare you even expect us to consider you being the best friend when you're considering putting her in even more of a hurting position than the loser that left her. Where's your morals?
2007-03-09 21:31:59 · answer #9 · answered by weazle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is the perfect way to tell her face to face..You say: before i tell you that I'm in love with your ex- boyfriend i need you to sit down so that i can tell you that I'm in love with your ex-boyfriend..This seems to be the best way to break any type of news hell this was the way i told my parents that i was pregnant.
2007-03-09 21:35:33 · answer #10 · answered by D.Marie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋