i hate to admit it to myself. sometimes i don't want to. But the thing is i tried month after month with him to try and love him....but i just....feel like he's my friend.... i hate it because it feels like i'm picky and don't appreciate having him by me but i do. i just don't love him like real love, but i care for him yes. is it bad?
2007-03-09 12:58:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you just don't feel the same way. It's going to hurt I know because I went through the same thing. I didn't understand why she just didn't like me yet I adored her (I still do). Now that she's gone I'd be happy just for her to be my friend again.
2007-03-09 13:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, gal. I have about 1 case each year whom I can't love back. All I did was to tell him the truth since beginning, be his friend thru thick and thin, but at the same time don't give him too much hope. When he said he's falling for me, i just replied "Don't fall too deep, else it would be difficult for you to get out"... something like that, and miraculously after some time he understood what I was saying - that I could not love him back. ;-)
2007-03-09 21:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by Shazz Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never try to force urself 2 love some1. Let him down easy, but tell him in person (txt mesaging,email or havin friends tell him is kinda rude...) anyway no, its not bad, it's not ur fault u dont luv him...it might mess up ur friendship 4 a while, but things will retun 2 normal hopefully
2007-03-09 21:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a girl feels like that about me. I wish she would tell me so I can move on. I wouldn't imagine moving on without knowing my chances are 100% gone. If you really only care about him then let him know. Don't be surprised if he's not too happy about the news. Good luck and keep honest.
2007-03-09 21:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by ithinkimanerd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you try to force yourself to love anyone? First, you need to love and respect yourself, then you can allow things to progress naturally and at their own pace with a person you admire. If love comes that's fine but if it doesn't that's fine too. Please don't ever become desperate because you think you're supposed to be in love with someone. It's time for you to learn to relax and simply enjoy life just as it is, just as it "really" is.
One of my favorite quotes is "To thine own self be true".
2007-03-09 21:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isnt bad, you cant help the way you feel for somebody and at least you gave it a shot. you should just tell him though or that would be bad to carry on the relationship when you dont feel the same way for him
2007-03-09 21:01:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isnt bad. you cant help who you do or do not love. but you need to end the relationship or you are both going to get hurt worse in the end. hope it all works out for you.
2007-03-09 21:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love him then break up with him (but do it so he knows that you still care for him).
2007-03-09 21:06:18 · answer #8 · answered by kfacer.2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont force yourself to love him.. Its better to be true to yourself.. And you're only making yourself stupid.. Tell him about this. He deserves to know than to hid it from him.. Tell him sorry because your only be true to yourself.. And of
course to others... Tell him that its okey for you to be friends only..
2007-03-09 21:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by rhean s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then dont!
2007-03-09 21:06:10 · answer #10 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋