2007-03-09 12:52:42 · 11 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, but you do need to go places that you will meet people. If you don't like to drink get involved in activities that interest you where you are likely to meet other people your age. The added benefit is that you will be meeting girls that have similar interest to you. If church, or the gym doesn't do it for you, I'm sure you know what things you like to do. Sitting home watching TV definitely won't work though. What ever you do, don't make yourself go to the bars just to find a girl. My little brother did that with his first wife, and then had issues with the fact that she wanted to go drinking all the time. Duh, people don't usually change a whole lot so its best to find a girl that you like as she is.
2007-03-09 13:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by p_doell 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In what Universe or parallel dimension does this ever happen? Like maybe the alternate Earth where straight quasi-gay straight dudes go to talk about Christianity and their mother's quilt making.
If you are not drinking and by extension the girls, then no one is going to be loose enough to even start a conversation. You need to be comfortable with yourself first, then it will not matter where you are- women pick up on that like a hound dog picks up scent. Women like to dance- it is an expression of their sexuality almost more so for them than hitting the sack with us guys.
Good luck
2007-03-09 13:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by RHJ Cortez 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the certainty is that maximum women does no longer even think of of going residing house with a guy they only met in a club (they only enable the guy think of that they could).some do of course, yet maximum women does no longer go away their friends to pass to a random persons residing house, reason by skill of the time the are the right age to pass out to golf equipment, they're mature sufficient and function sufficient uncomplicated experience to be attentive to something undesirable ought to take place.. extra females do it on holiday for some reason nevertheless...that's stupid haha it is much extra risky :P
2016-11-23 18:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope,i don't drink and i have never dated a girl i met in a bar or a club...lol,so you can get girls without alcohol and without going to clubs...actually,u don't wanna date a girl u met at a bar/club:D
2007-03-09 12:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by cam_555_fsh 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey you! Thanks for giving me best answer. Personally, I have gone out with a 21 yr old. For some reason, I have a lot of younger guys hitting on me. I love it!
It's Friday night, so go out and have some fun. That's what I'm going to do!
2007-03-09 13:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by linka 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
at first i did, then the older i got (im 29 now) it seemed easier to find the women that dont like to drink and smoke and all that stuff. its not worth the hassle - honestly, its not. also, you have to remember that these women like personality and if you have that with a sense of humor that can make them laugh. well then you already got one up on the others. also, once dating, treat them like a queen, and they will bend over backwards for you almost instantly in every situation. i should know, i have 4 chasing me now!
2007-03-09 13:03:15 · answer #6 · answered by brianju 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if you have to do any of that.... then your seriously doing somethinig wrong. Why would someone need to be intoxicated to talk to you? try a library or the grocery store. or better yet don't try. if you see the right girl just talk to her. you'll find a woman you respect that way.
2007-03-09 12:58:40 · answer #7 · answered by Armond B 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No but it does make for an interesting night.
2007-03-09 13:03:29 · answer #8 · answered by BlueEyez84 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
nope, i had no problem at all and now i am married to one of the girls i met
2007-03-09 12:57:04 · answer #9 · answered by Vettepilot 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you will only pick up bad girls in these area
2007-03-09 12:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by hignome 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋