I am in love with my bf, his name is Kevin. Im 15 and hes 16. Both of us want to make our love life better. Problem is he lives 6 hours away. So any advice on how to do that?
2007-03-09 12:51:11 · 11 answers · asked by lil_thing00 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all don't listen to people saying you're too young for love. Those are those adults again looking down on us "teenagers with raging hormones" haven't we heard that before? (I'm 15)Second of all 6 hours is NOT long distance. When I lived in Maryland, I moved to the opposite side of the world to Thailand 4 years ago. I tried to stay with my girlfriend but it didn't work out.So 6 hours, not a big deal. It takes 26 hours to get to Asia. First off, you need to make sure you both won't bet attracted to other girls/guys, thats what happened to me. It's very easy for either of you to have a relationship without the other knowing. How long have you been together? Anyway, for me as a guy, something other than sex would be to spend a holiday at the other's house. If your parents will allow for it. You don't have to sleep in the same room or anything. But also, you don't REALLY know someone until you've lived with them. So it's a double whammy, you'll get to know each other alot better and spend time together without going back and forth to your homes. Something else, that would be good is, get a group of friends (girls and guys) and go to the beach for a weekend or holiday. This way your parents won't worry about you being alone with him. You have to convince them the guys will stay in one room and the girls in another.
2007-03-09 13:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by hellopanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lil_thin- i wish i had better advice than what i am about to give...first of all, u r so young. u have many years ahead of you to worry about such stuff. right now, enjoy your time with your friends and family. go shopping. join some groups/clubs. i realize this boy probably means a great deal to u but i can almost guarantee there will be others later on down the line. and second, if he lives 6 hrs away, the chances are slim that it would even work out. i know from experience. good luck and many blessings in your life.
2007-03-09 20:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by intelligentanswergrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you see eachother enough to develop a relationship living 6 hours away from eachother!? The key here is parental cooperation, ask if he can come over after school friday and spend the night in your guest bedroom or on the couch. If your parents like him, it's not going to be that dificult to be with him. Start talking to your parents!
2007-03-09 20:57:29 · answer #3 · answered by king cody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone you like that is closer in location to you.
When you say "love life", I am assuming you mean the physical aspect of your relationship. Long distance relationships rarely work, especially when you both do not have the ability to drive, nor the liberty or financial means to see each other often. I hate to say it, but all relationship therapists will tell you the same thing.
2007-03-09 20:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by Contessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK i have a long distans relationship with my bf i live in Milaca, MN and he lives in Belt, MT. So we tex all the time and talk on the phone and IM every chance we get so i see what ur going through. So what im going 2 tell u may sound sad and hard but its relly eazy. talk tex and IM every chans u get and then when u do get to see him it will seem like u sow him the do b4
2007-03-09 21:06:37 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha Jo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you get yourselves a webcam and talk over voice with a program like Skype..even msn and yahoo messenger will let you do this.
This way you can spend valuable time seeing and talking to eachother when you are not able to do it physically.
My current girlfriend and i met this way and we used to live countries apart. Today a year after we are living together in the US and are very happy
2007-03-09 20:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is key in your situation. You both have to be committed to keeping up with the communication, no matter what kind. Phone calls, e-mails, instant message.
And maybe decide that one or two days out of the month or whatever you are able, you guys can get together and hang out some where.
2007-03-09 20:56:09 · answer #7 · answered by Nevaeh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you WAY !!!!! to freaking young for a love life, whats the rush, how do you know what love is ? slow down !!!!
2007-03-09 20:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by Big R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a boyfriend/girlfriend that lives closer to you
2007-03-09 20:55:06 · answer #9 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships dont work all the time...
2007-03-09 20:54:05 · answer #10 · answered by rebel5689 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋