My fiance and I had a bad fight because of the way he and my best friend were exchanging a couple of emails. She email him greeting him for his birthday and somehow he replied for me in a very close way, she emails him back in the same way but for me it was like she was flirthing on him. Now we will be going to the wedding of another friend, where my fiance will meet for the first time all my closes friends including this friend who had email to him. She expects to pull his leg a lot and she told me that. I don't like the idea. Should I tell her that I did not like the way that she email him before? Should I tell her that I saw those emails like she was flirthing on him? Will this be a good idea to show her that she should try to keep some distance? I know she does not have interest but she can get carried away with her tease and they look more like flighting. I feel unconfortable about this trip but I have to attend. Do you think I should ignore this and see how he act?
2007-03-09 12:51:02 · 6 answers · asked by C H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should tell her. You should also keep an eye on your "friend".
2007-03-09 12:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Terri C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well from my own experience, and be engaged myself (and being a chicK) she probably really was flirting with him, maybe even subconsciously. I've been struggling lately with some other guy being all cutsy-flirty with me and my fiance hates it and the more we talk about it the more it brings us down. I do believe honesty IS THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO, and if you 100% believe she does NOT have interest in him, then tell her your concerns, and sayyou don't like it, can you cool it? and if she understands, she won't be so flirty with this other guy
2007-03-09 12:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that you saw the emails that she sent your fiancee. Tell her that it made you uncomfortable the way she was communicating with him. She is your friend, I'm sure she will understand!
2007-03-09 12:55:38 · answer #3 · answered by RKO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her about it. I am sorry, but she is not much of a friend if she is hitting on your man. Like the saying goes... with friends like that, who need enemies.
2007-03-09 12:57:06 · answer #4 · answered by AMoRous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should confront her about it ahead of time. I think she needs to know how you are feeling. She probably thinks that the e-mails were harmless, if you make her understand that they werent she may stop.
2007-03-09 12:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you trust this girl? if not tell her to back off
2007-03-09 12:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋