Im getting married in july the 21st, and everything is going ok, is just that sometimes i feel like i want to just say nevermind to the wedding, but I do love my fiancee and i dont want to lose him, am I normal?
2007-03-09 12:40:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I think it is very normal. Planning a wedding can be stressful enough- not to mention doing it while trying to work, maintain your relationship, dealing with work, etc. Sometimes our fiances just get under our skin and it makes us feel like the whole world could blow up and we wouldn't care. This can last from now until right after you get married. The thing that you noted was that you mentioned it only happened sometimes. If you are feeling like that ALL the time, you may want to sit down and try to figure out why you feel like that.
Otherwise- what you feel right now is normal. Most brides go through it and get over it.
Take a few days out of the week and designate them as "No Wedding" days. On those days you make sure you do absolutely NOTHING in regards to the wedding. delegate tasks to your MOH or other person whom you trust. Make at least one of those days a day that strictly is for your fiance. Planning a wedding is easy compared to the work that you have to do in the marriage itself, so stand up, smile big and embrace what comes to you.
2007-03-09 16:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is normal. i think it's all the hassle of planning on the wedding that sometimes makes us forget that getting married is for two people and that you love your fiancee. I had cold feet too a few months before i registered my marriage.
2007-03-09 23:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by autumn lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think that tha more you are thinking of him you start a list that is a good side of being married with him and then tha bad side of being married. And then feeling start to come thinking that it might be or not be. I think your best bet is to seat down and talk with him and tell him how l you really feel.
2007-03-09 21:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only normal if you are not 100 percent positive you are making the right decision.
2007-03-09 21:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is, planning a wedding is overwhelming enough but to realize that for the rest of your life you're going to be with someone, they are going to see you at your best and worse...you're going to have someone who's going to rely on you and you're going to have to rely and trust them..it's a big step...it's no longer "you" you're an "us.
2007-03-09 21:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cold feet is your intuition telling you, "RUN!!!!" I'd seriously suggest you speak with a good marriage counsellor ASAP and find out what's up.
2007-03-09 20:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coldfeet is very normal
2007-03-09 20:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by Smurfett 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no. if you aren't sure, postpone!
2007-03-10 06:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋