ok i told one of my best guy friends that i really like him to day and he has a boyfirned yea he is bi and we might start dating but i need to know cuz i have no problem with him having a boyfriend hey the best of both worlds i really love him weve knmown each other since like band camp this year (june) i really love him more than i can explain in words but if we date would you classify it as cheating if you go out with a guy who has a boyfirend
2007-03-09 12:23:41 · 16 answers · asked by teen_rebel2010 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know that successful open relationships do exist, but everyone involved needs to know it's an open relationship. In other words, not only does it need to be ok with you and this guy, it also needs to be ok with his boyfriend.
Also remember that when things start getting non-exclusive your STD risks go through the roof, trojan or not
2007-03-09 12:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's cheating. You may love this boy but he needs to determine what he wants out of a relationship. You really can't have the best of both worlds and it work out for everyone. That just doesn't happen. Someone is going to get hurt or jealous over it. He may want a girlfriend for SHOW but not a relationship with the girl. I would remain friends and see what happens but move on and see what happens as well. You just may be missing another opportunity with someone else. Good Luck to all of you.
2007-03-09 20:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by andyt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you assume anything, you might want to sit down and have a conversation with your friend's boyfriend. To think that you will only have a relationship with the one you like would be crazy, if you start dating this guy, you will also in a sense start dating his boyfriend. You will have to share him, are you prepared for that? Also, if he is sexually active, and you are as well, you might want to make sure that all three of you are tested before you make the decision to be sexually active with this guy as well. Just be sure that you can live with this guy's boyfriend or it will never work. Good luck with this!
2007-03-09 20:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by Allison P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea it is cheating. but the problem is he is stuck in the middle of it... 2 people like him. i mean think about how hard it is on him. he probably feels like crap because he doesnt want to hurt nobodys feelings. anyway dont hold it aginst him if he turns u down.
2007-03-09 20:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
technically yes. and as much as I hate to say it I wouldn't put him in a position that he'll have to chose between you and his boyfriend. Someone will get hurt in the end.
2007-03-09 20:28:17 · answer #5 · answered by The Flying Porcupine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would say so only cause if a guy ,girl or girl, girl or guy ,guy do not matter all the same all human i would say it is cheating it not matter what sex they want it all the same
2007-03-09 20:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by boo_boo5001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, I'd say that is cheating. Unless the other guy doesn't care.
2007-03-09 20:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by TPhi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is cheating on his part if he has a partner(of either sex) and starts up with you.
2007-03-09 20:27:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and I wouldn't put myself through the heartbreak, he already has made it known about his sexual preferences, you won't change him.
2007-03-09 20:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not since you know up front and your OK with it.
2007-03-09 20:31:40 · answer #10 · answered by jsmo555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋