This is mostly pertaining to teens but adults are welcome. When you go on a date with someone, do you consider them your boyfriend/girlfriend? I think a date is a date and thats it. Do you wait for a guy to ask you to be his girlfriend? To guys do you think that the girl is your girlfriend when you go on the first date? Would you ask her to be your girlfriend or wait untill a couple of dates and just label each other as that? Teens these days claim each other when they have only been on one date. As a teen, i think that girls need to respect themselves more and stop trying to grow so fast. I think that you should go on 2-3 dates with a guy and then he should talk to you about being more than friends.
What do you think? Do you think that's expecting too much or that's how it's suppose to be?
2007-03-09 12:19:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dating is one thing, a relationship is another. Things change between high school and college though. In high school, if people went out on dates together they were probably "in a relationship", but now that I'm in college you can date a lot of people without being exclusive to any one person.
Some guys/girls can get confused though if you date a lot... so make sure you clarify how far you want to take things, as in going for a relationship or not.
2007-03-09 12:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by BeachBoarder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally agree. Just going out with a guy once does NOT mean that you are bf/gf. It means that you are friends. If this dating goes on however, and the relationship progresses (not physically, nessicarily), THAT is when 2 prople can consider themselves bf/gf.
and, no, i don't think that the guy has to come right out and 'ask' the girl to be his girlfriend.
2007-03-09 12:26:44 · answer #2 · answered by *city girl* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer inevitably, lol it particularly is called a date, i think of because of the fact they set a date mutually on which they're gonna pass out. i think of diverse people do particularly some issues on their dates.
2016-11-23 18:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by hasir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, you dont just ask someone to be your gilrfriend/boyfriend. You go on double dates to the movies or anohter cool spot and become really comfortable with each other, and then you start Doing serious stuff. sry didnt read your whole question hope i answered it
2007-03-09 12:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by Breaker's Lax Rules!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion, if you go out on a date, it's just a date. you could go out on a date with a kazillion people, and who cares? eventually you will most likely start liking someone. Then you decide to date exclusively and become bf/gf. that's how i view it.
2007-03-09 12:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's whatever you feel for them. If you have more feelings for them and want to be more than friends, then you confront them about your feelings toward them. Its depends really what you see in them and if you like them to really tell if you want to be their boyfriend/girlfriend.
2007-03-09 12:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i go on a date with someone - that doesn't mean they're my boyfriend........ its not until we decide to keep on going out taht i consider to have a boyfriend
2007-03-09 12:25:08 · answer #7 · answered by Zuri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree because today everyone "hooks up" way to quick and careless!
2007-03-09 12:27:58 · answer #8 · answered by Twisted Vixen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋